ShadoPrism
 member, 1174 posts
 OCGD-Obsessive-Compulsive
 Gamer-Disorder
Sun 25 Mar 2018
at 22:29
Technical Problems?
Use a different browser - I am using firefox right now.
From what I read it's Only Chrome that is having the problem so Chrome has to fix it.
GammaBear
 member, 818 posts
 Gaymer
Sun 25 Mar 2018
at 22:32
Technical Problems?
In reply to ShadoPrism (msg # 1107):

I can't. Work computer.
ShadoPrism
 member, 1176 posts
 OCGD-Obsessive-Compulsive
 Gamer-Disorder
Sun 25 Mar 2018
at 22:33
Technical Problems?
Report the problem to Chrome - that is only other thing I can think of.
Isida KepTukari
 member, 201 posts
 Elegant! Arrogant! Smart!
Sun 1 Apr 2018
at 11:32
Technical Problems?
Blithering idiots.  I have a shared computer at work (I work in heavy industry) where I can answer e-mails, track production, do line-ups, etc.  The tech guys decided to update to Windows 10 on that computer (but not the other one in the same office, for whatever reason).  And when they did so, they deleted the program that we use to track production.

That program is on every other computer in the department and on the machines themselves, but they deleted it off of the shared computer for the shift supervisor.  Now, instead of being able to track and fix problems from my desk, assess how to distribute the crew each day, print out schedules, I get to run around like a headless chicken to multiple terminals to do my job.

Tech support wanted me to just ask for a software upgrade.  For which I need an account number.  I am an hourly worker, not a salaried - they don't give computer upgrade accounts to the likes of me!

They eventually fixed it, like four days later, but seriously, guys?  You "update" it on a Friday, and leave us to limp along all weekend until you return to fix the problem you created?  We run a 24-hour plant, that was six shifts of production, minimum, that had to deal with this nonsense.  Get your act together!
ShadoPrism
 member, 1179 posts
 OCGD-Obsessive-Compulsive
 Gamer-Disorder
Sun 1 Apr 2018
at 16:12
Technical Problems?
In reply to Isida KepTukari (msg # 1110):

There are days where you want to take these supposed tech experts out and shoot them with a fire hose, to see if it will restart their common sense.
NowhereMan
 member, 193 posts
Mon 2 Apr 2018
at 00:38
Technical Problems?
Did you turn it off and back on again?
aguy777
 member, 266 posts
 Join Date:
 Fri, 29 Nov, 2013
Mon 2 Apr 2018
at 00:40
Technical Problems?
Did you make sure it's plugged in?
Isida KepTukari
 member, 203 posts
 Elegant! Arrogant! Smart!
Mon 2 Apr 2018
at 02:01
Technical Problems?
I even wiggled all the cords!
Brygun
 member, 2025 posts
 RPG since 1982
 Author & Inspiration
Tue 3 Apr 2018
at 20:59
Technical Problems?
Gall darn it this thread has over 1,000 posts! Vent! Vent! Vent!
Isida KepTukari
 member, 205 posts
 Elegant! Arrogant! Smart!
Fri 13 Apr 2018
at 04:14
Technical Problems?
This is a minor gripe in the grand scheme of things, but this is a vent thread, so vent I shall!

The husband has been complaining of a "bad smell" in the house, particularly right when he opens the front door.  Mostly, I feel this can be contributed to the fact that the master bedroom, which is right across from the front door, contains both a cat's litter box and our half-bathroom, neither of which is cleaned as much as it should.  In particular, despite the fact he has designated taking the trash out as one of his household chores, that bathroom garbage doesn't get emptied every week.  For him, "taking the trash out" consists of hauling the filled trash and recycle bins to the curb, not checking to see if any trash cans need emptying into the big before trash day.

So instead of going on a more frequent cleaning regimen (which I would be happy to help with), he decides the best way to get rid of the "bad smell" is to buy one of those plug-in air fresheners and plug it in right by the front door.

Here's where I must mention that he and I have very different ideas of what constitutes a good air freshener/scented candle scent.  He prefers things that are sweet or heavy - cookie scents, baking scents, vanilla, etc.  I much prefer fresh, fruity, or floral - apple, lilac, pine.

Apparently he compromised by getting lavender-vanilla.  I hate it.  It smells like something that would be installed to attempt to deodorize a public restroom in a restaurant, or be an overly-scented perfume worn by an elderly woman.  Our damn Swiffer mop heads are scented that way (they were on sale), so I associate that smell with hard cleaning and a nasty job.  The scent combination is unpleasant.  It's like spraying pine air freshener in a bathroom after taco day - it just smells like someone pooped in a pine forest.

I told him I didn't like it, that I in fact strongly disliked it.  He said it was better than this elusive "bad smell."  It being so close to the bedroom and right where I had to walk by it a dozen times a day meant I got to be irritated by that nasty smell even in my sleep.  So, since the plug-in is under a bench and out of line of sight, I just unplugged the damn thing.  Since it had already sprayed on the bench a few times, I figured the scent would linger enough that I could get some nasal peace.

No such luck.  I came in after my night shift to discover he'd plugged the wretched thing back in, stinking up the whole bedroom and hall again.  I unplugged it and hid it on the top of a bookshelf, out of sight.  Once the stench dissipates, I'll consider getting the alternative scent he bought - apple cinnamon.  But I don't want my sleeping space to smell like lavender-vanilla-apple-cinnamon.

Mostly I think a mutual devotion to more frequent and dilligent housekeeping (and the occasional spritz of Febreeze) would solve this alleged "bad smell" that caused this fiasco in the first place, and that's what I'll be telling him this weekend.  Also, that when we go shopping for any air fresheners from now on, we're doing it together or not at all.
ShadoPrism
 member, 1187 posts
 OCGD-Obsessive-Compulsive
 Gamer-Disorder
Fri 13 Apr 2018
at 04:20
Technical Problems?
In reply to Isida KepTukari (msg # 1116):

yikes
Merevel
 member, 1222 posts
 The Unlucky Gamer
Fri 13 Apr 2018
at 13:05
Technical Problems?
In reply to Isida KepTukari (msg # 1116):

Gross, good luck.

Also Hi, eh, usual complaints about the total lack of tabletop gaming in my life right now. Kinda given up and just jot down stories at this point.

*shrugs*
jpetoh
 member, 372 posts
 As irrational
 as pi.
Tue 17 Apr 2018
at 14:09
I got fired from D&D
So yesterday, I got fired from D&D.

My DM for my Tuesday night Adventurer's League game contacted me because he "couldn't help but notice [I am] becoming more and more frustrated during sessions, talking a lot more at the table about non game things, stopping play a lot more to "correct" non issues, or simple things I forgot." He asked that we "talk about it before it becomes a real issue at the table!" (I'm cutting and pasting quotes from our FB chat.)

Yes, I had some mild frustration with a few things, but nothing was a deal-breaker. Strahd's a bipolar looney-tunes, and that can induce hair-pulling. I was upset after the perfect magic weapon for my fighter was distributed with a random die roll, even though the entire table agreed I should have it except for the ranger who ultimately did get it. I got quiet when I lost, mourned my crushed hopes, and moved on. Certainly didn't blame the DM.

Yes, I cross-talk at the table. Guilty as charged, thank you for bringing it up, I commit to being quieter.

No, I don't remember "stopping play" for corrections. Please provide me with an example, and I'll happily take responsibility within reason.

Yes, I have some mild frustrations with the DM always saying "let him play his own character" when all I'm doing is helping the three players who are brand new to D&D remember some basic powers to help them fully realize their potential. When the Level 1 barbarian doesn't Rage, she'll probably die.

Yes, there are former players who are no longer at the table who had frustration levels go to high for too long and things got ugly mid-game. I've been playing for decades, and that happens.

Finally, I apologized profusely for everything that was my responsibility and committed to correct the offending behavior. I considered all these minor issues, and I offered an easy solution.

So he starts talking about the challenges he had getting the group together, how much time and money he has invested in his hobby to DM for free, and that he's very happy with the group that has come together. So far so good.

Then I get this:
quote:
"I have to ask myself, as an amateur DM, investing his own resources into other peoples fun, am I willing to deal with peoples drama? Having read everything you shared, I am at the conclusion that I really don't want to have to deal with adversarial players. Some of the things you disagree with are things I know I am not willing to compromise on, the reason being that no DM can ever truly make everyone happy with their DM style. However, I am in the position to cut my losses with those who arent on board, and would rather focus my time and energy on those who are having fun and can bring themselves to accepting my DM style. After all, you arent paying me and I am under no obligation to cater to anyone's preferences. I feel as though I have put forth effort to be a friend to you, beyond the game table.  However as your actions have shown me, this is all for naught.  I do not feel you respect me as an equal at the table.  On that same note, I do not seek to further attempt to gain your respect as it is not something I value any longer. Therefor I have come to the conclusion that I no longer want you at my table. Feel free to make your own Tuesday group. I wish you all the best man And am available should you want to vent, or voice any disagreement, just know my decision is final and unrelenting." (emphasis mine)

This is followed up with:
quote:
"I also just want you to know that I harbor no ill will towards you man."

I am in complete Hostess Fruit Pieing shock.

I ask him what exactly I said in my plea to offend him. His response was that he "just wanted to hear me out."

I ask him if he had already made his decision before he talked to me. He said, "Of course not." Again, I ask what I said to lead him to believe I don't respect him. He says, "It had nothing to do with what you said. I judge people on character and actions. Those actions were observed at the table."

WTF?! Sounds sure as heck to me like you made your cherries jubileeing decision way before you contacted me for this "talk."

The remainder is a further deteriorating spiral into this dude's madness as I try to discuss the logistics of me trying to run a table in the same store on the same night, as that's the ONLY night I can do it. I also ask him what he's planning on saying to the others, because I feel it's only fair to make sure that those who remain are clear about the expectations that he for all intents and purposes sprung on me in his own frustration. If I'm going to be the head-on-a-stick in front of his castle, he sure as heck better be overt about what it means. I also don't need him dragging my name through the mud when I may be interested in starting my own group.

So now my one face-to-face gaming outlet is squashed under the heel of a mad DM's boot, and I'm really plantaining upset about it.

And the irony: I respected him until he told me that he didn't think I respected him, and now I don't respect him for not showing me the respect to let me know why he thinks I don't respect him. :)
ShadoPrism
 member, 1189 posts
 OCGD-Obsessive-Compulsive
 Gamer-Disorder
Tue 17 Apr 2018
at 16:17
I got fired from D&D
In reply to jpetoh (msg # 1119):

Wow. This brings back memories - and reminds me why I stopped table top gaming. The drama of the group outside of the game.
Sorry for your frustration and all. Got to say loved your choice of 'fruit' for the explenitives.
I suggest you talk to the other players on your own and see what they have to say. Try to keep your bridges from burning any further. Other than that I can't think of anything to add.
jpetoh
 member, 373 posts
 As irrational
 as pi.
Tue 17 Apr 2018
at 19:01
I got fired from D&D
What do my former DM and Strahd have in common?

One is a bipolar, soul-sucking despot ruling over an imaginary land with an iron fist, and the other is a fictional vampire.

This message was last edited by the user at 20:30, Tue 17 Apr.

PCO.Spvnky
 member, 354 posts
Tue 17 Apr 2018
at 21:41
I got fired from D&D
Hmm, never posted here before so I figure I will give it a try.

So gamin has been my favorite and most relaxing pastime since I was in high school.  Lately however it has been becoming more and more irritating and aggravating to me. I am not quite sure what to do about it but I am considering just stopping altogether.

My main gaming group plays one night a week and used to be fun and interesting.  Now it has degraded to the point where at least every other week (although it is probably more often than that) I get to sit and listen to tirades about feminists being the worst thing int the world, or how white privilege doesn't exist, or how drumpf is not actually all that bad a president (or actually how great he is).  There is one player in particular that whenever he opens his mouth something comes out that hurts my brain.  I listen to them, their examples, and their definitions (that are completely inaccurate) and just get more irritated.  last week we literally had about 30 minutes of actual game time in a 7 hour session and I was beginning to expect them to break out a confederate flag and possibly burn a cross.

So to alleviate this I have two games that run haphazardly on Sundays.  The first one was great, we have been playing for years (level 19 mythic 4 in PF).  Now we are playing far less frequently so half the session is devoted to remembering where we left off.  The player with the most involved plot line doesn't show to most of the sessions (claiming school yet there is plenty of time for PC games).  The rest of the game is spent (seemingly) attempting to not get any of our objectives done by continuously trying to find new things to do before completion of older goals.

The second Sunday game is one that I run.  I spend a decent amount of my time coming up with plot lines for it only to have players consistently bail on it because everything in their lives is more important than the game.  One player tells me "I'm too tired" the day I show up hung over with less than 5 hours of sleep.

Then I try to supplement with rpol.  I spend hours coming up with a concept, followed by writing up a backstory.  I don't get in, or I get in and the gm suddenly had something come up and can't run the game anymore, or I get in and one person becomes a complete dingleberrylichlover from the get go.

I try to start up another game during the week with a couple other friends but one of them has no desire to play ANYTHING remotely interesting for two of us (out of 4) so that falls through.

So then a friend of mine starts running a new PF game and we sit and discuss my concept for hours.  I make my character, suddenly there are rules that aren't allowed because they feels they are unbalancing, yet they are running the game to play test a class that another one of their friends made up to see if it is broken.

ugh......
ShadoPrism
 member, 1192 posts
 OCGD-Obsessive-Compulsive
 Gamer-Disorder
Tue 17 Apr 2018
at 23:26
I got fired from D&D
A break is not a bad thing. Makes it less likely you will go postal on those around you.
Sometime though you may have to set a house rule to leave the Real World at the door. So no politics, religion or anything not related to the game. Your a GM not a therapist [if you Are a therapist, then remind them you get Payed to listen to such things and if they want to vent, make an appointment.]
Talon
 member, 368 posts
Tue 17 Apr 2018
at 23:34
I got fired from D&D
In reply to PCO.Spvnky (msg # 1122):

That's really rough. Like Shado said, a break can be a good thing, both from tabletop games and from the circle of friends you hang out with. It can help a lot to go out and do a Meetup group or something to mingle with some fresh people and have new conversations, it can also make hanging out with old friends more pleasant as you'll have new things to talk about. (I can sympathize with this too much myself, lately hanging out with the same social circles each week has started to feel like a slog as the same topics get discussed every week)
Eggy
 member, 785 posts
Wed 18 Apr 2018
at 13:57
Contagion
Last month, I reported one of the IT guys for going around with exposed, untreated ringworm while updating computers.

A couple days ago, an odd persistent itch began between my shoulders and creeping up my neck. Last night at the gym, I saw him! Ringworm IT Guy! And he didn't wipe down any benches he used. I reported him to the gym management and he was asked to leave.

I have an appointment tomorrow for the itch. I don't know if it's really ringworm (I can't see it properly) or if it's just in my head, but I am livid.
Utsukushi
 member, 1449 posts
 I should really stay out
 of this, I know...but...
Wed 18 Apr 2018
at 15:26
Contagion
Ahh!  Now I feel itchy.

(I'm not honestly sure if this is a response to Eggy's Vent, or a Vent of my own. grin)
Robotron
 member, 54 posts
Thu 19 Apr 2018
at 19:44
Contagion
The president of Uganda has banned oral sex.
Yaztromo
 member, 168 posts
Fri 20 Apr 2018
at 01:27
Re: Aaaargh!!!
Robotron:
The president of Uganda has banned oral sex.

Only written sex now... ;D
NowhereMan
 member, 199 posts
Fri 20 Apr 2018
at 01:37
Re: Aaaargh!!!
What, no multiple choice?
Yaztromo
 member, 169 posts
Fri 20 Apr 2018
at 01:39
Re: Aaaargh!!!
No, please, let's not do it as a tick box exercise!!! :D
Eggy
 member, 786 posts
Fri 20 Apr 2018
at 01:44
Re: Aaaargh!!!
Yaztromo:
Robotron:
The president of Uganda has banned oral sex.

Only written sex now... ;D

As long as they'll still grade on the curve.