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Vents with allowed responses - 3.

Posted by GamerHandle
Brianna
member, 2164 posts
Tue 11 Dec 2018
at 22:16
  • msg #1312

Staggering along

In reply to Isida KepTukari (msg # 1311):

Sounds as though you're spreading yourself a bit thin, especially for this time of year.  Can you postpone or drop any of the responsibilities?  Keep in mind that you don't have to have full blown Light Deprivation Syndrome to be affected by the days getting shorter.
Isida KepTukari
member, 240 posts
Elegant! Arrogant! Smart!
Tue 11 Dec 2018
at 22:46
  • msg #1313

Staggering along

I really hope I don't have Light Deprivation Syndrome; I've been on a night shift for the better part of 12 years!  I was able to get my dad on board to take over some holiday baking, and my husband is picking up more chores , so that is helping somewhat.  I should be able to, shall we say, steal time from work to do some game prep, and at I am off the hook for cooking dinner for the next week.  Little things, baby steps...
Brianna
member, 2165 posts
Wed 12 Dec 2018
at 21:23
  • msg #1314

Staggering along

In reply to Isida KepTukari (msg # 1313):

Well, it sounds as though you are light deprived!  Try some supplemental Vitamin E, and if you can, get some light bulbs intended to help plants grow in winter; the light best for plants is also good for us.  Neither will do you any harm, and maybe they will help.  I think a lot of people suffer from light deprivation, luckily most of us only to a minor degree.  But certainly a lot feel depressed, overwhelmed etc at this time of year, for varying reasons.
Isida KepTukari
member, 242 posts
Elegant! Arrogant! Smart!
Fri 21 Dec 2018
at 02:36
  • msg #1315

Staggering along

To Hades with your roast!

Look, I know you like a beef roast.  I know you like a beef roast for special occasions.  And we have managed to add your beef roast to nearly every large family dinner that we have, even those that don't need them at all.  But to say you're going to leave our family gathering on Christmas Day in order to go home and cook a roast because the rest of us just wanted to have a lighter brunch meal...

It's a damn childish and selfish thing to do.  You say Christmas Day isn't Christmas Day without a roast.  I say Christmas Day isn't Christmas Day without family.  Ducking out because you aren't getting the exact food that you want (a food you can cook any other damn day of the year) is not appropriate.  It's disrespectful in particular to those family members we haven't seen in a year.

Other family members have decided to be accommodating and let you cook your wretched lump of beef at our family gathering, just so we don't have to argue. But can't we, for once, just do some things with the family without having to structure everything around your refusal to compromise?  We have to eat super-early because you have work in the morning.  We have to have a roast because you eat other meat only very reluctantly.  You refuse to give up so much as an hour of sleep (despite the fact you'll stay up an hour past your "bedtime" in order to catch up on your online games), despite the fact I frequently short myself in order to make sure I can spend time with the people I love (regardless of my night shift schedule).

You've seen the difficulties I've had this holiday season already.  For the love of little apples, don't pull this manure with me right now!
ShadoPrism
member, 1252 posts
OCGD-Obsessive-Compulsive
Gamer-Disorder
Sat 22 Dec 2018
at 00:05
  • msg #1316

silly rant

Tis Xmas time and nothing is going as planned.

I bought a new dishwasher (on sale) for a friend for xmas - it showed up to be installed, only for it to have a large dent in the door. (leads to hassle getting it set up to be installed as the store had to do a new contract and sale, which ironically is $40 cheaper as the extra matterials (hoses and such) were on sale now.) So that much is good. But it's not going to get installed till sometime after New Years.

On my front, for my neighbors I got each a different flavor of fudge (the all loved it). The gifts I got back though, fruit from a neighbor who knows I am diabetic (knows I can't have candy but never thought about the natural sugars in the fruit). Still nice to be remembered.
Other neighbor, a very nice lady who actually started our groups annual xmas gifting amoung the neighbors - got me a nice new shirt - 1 size to small for me.  Still nice she thought of me. I gave her the tangerines the first neighbor gave me. I know how much her family loves them, so that worked out. (Edit: I misread the size of the shirt, it does fit as it is a Tall (I am tall and most normal shirts are thus to small) so Yea!
Of the fruit, gave it to a family I know, told them it was from me and the first lady (the one who gave it to me to begin with). I did this as we are all neighbors. They loved it to and I told my friend what I did, she thought that was a nice gesture on my part.

Learned though that the relitives I normally spend the holiday with are off on a family trip, so that will not be happening this year. I learned this via another family memeber as my cousins forgot to tell me they will be out of town on Xmas (had no one thought to tell me I would have learned it only after I got to their place, which is a 3 hour drive.) And as it was I was only told as an after thought.
This message was last edited by the user at 00:41, Sun 23 Dec 2018.
Brianna
member, 2166 posts
Sat 22 Dec 2018
at 23:38
  • msg #1317

Staggering along

In reply to Isida KepTukari (msg # 1315):

In my family some have allergies and intolerances (much more serious than 'I want beef roast, whine, whine') so each family brings something that covers any restrictions, though we also have dessert recipes that work.  If someone wanted beef roast, which also tends to be expensive, we'd expect that person to bring their own.

Our routine may be very different than yours.  We rent the hall, with use of the kitchen, at the church, and everyone speaks for what they can/want to bring from a loosely planned menu, so that one person doesn't have to do all the cooking and cleaning up.  We never have beef; there would be 50 of us (so far) if everyone came, so we'd need most of the cow!  This modified pot luck may not be your thing, but perhaps a version of it?  Like the hosts might do the main course, others might bring desserts, and 'oh, yeah, you'll be bringing beef roast since you want that?'

But sometimes you just have to resign yourself to not having the difficult one there.  One of my brothers-in-law rarely comes; I think he finally quit smoking which wasn't allowed, but he still wants beer with his meal - none of that in a church hall, and about half the family don't drink alcohol.  My husband goes sometimes; we'll have to see if he shows up more often now he's retired.  I think from your post it may not be that simple to just leave someone out if that's what they want, but it's something to consider.

BTW timing is set, people accommodate as best they can.  For instance my (more local) son-in-law works the day we are celebrating Christmas this year, a good hour's drive away.  But he will come after work, my daughter will come on the bus probably the day before and stay with us, they will work it out.  Even if there were fewer of us, we wouldn't set up the time entirely to suit one person, except maybe the host.

I hope it all works out, try not to let one person mess up your day.
V_V
member, 790 posts
You can call me V, just V
Life; a journey made once
Thu 27 Dec 2018
at 12:25
  • msg #1318

Staggering along

I reconnected with my abusive brother. It was not a mistake, but it reinforced what a piece of trash he is. I had to get him out of my mental space; the resentment and the OCD was letting him get space in my mind without paying rent.I had to confront him, and not to argue, to forgive him; not to not be totally done with him; but to release the hatred that was only festering. It's like someone said, hating someone is liking drinking poison and hoping the other person gets sick.

Anyway, I bought him an NES classic; mostly so he'd stay home and stop going over to see our nephew, which I've done all I can but the flipper is free as far as the state is considered until after damage is done. So anyway, I went to hook up the thing, because he couldn't figure out an HDMI plug. He is that awkward. I thought I had my phone but when I went for it, it was gone. I messaged him to have him look for it. Dude has a room the size of walk in closet, it would only be in one place. Nope, he can't find it. "Oh well" I call my voicemail on my friend's phone. Flipping ass was listening to my messages. That's how manipulative he was. I know because he saved a message on that date, the 20th, and I hadn't even listened to the message yet. So I messaged him, "give me my phone, I don't want you listening to my messages", and he goes "I didn't listen to your messages, your phone isn't here!" that would be fine, if I didn't call him on the way over to his place, if I hadn't patted my pocket when I left. The only place else it could be is the car, and well, my car's name isn't Christine. The car was locked, and no one could listen to my messages without being Jason Born or a Pretender.

So I just ordered a new phone. The silver lining. It was due, VERY overdue. The charger isn't even made anymore, and the wire was frayed so bad. The thing wasn't even a flip phone, remember those? Go older! It was this Nokia flat phone from like 2003. Like I say to people about my gaming books, I get a HELL of a lot of use of out objects I buy, and that phone was free anyway, through the state. I've had it since about...oh I think 2010, about. I have free service (though it's shotty) because I am under the poverty line, so all I had to do was pay like $50 for a free and clear phone, a smart phone. It was funny, Anne, my friend, was like "It's only rated at 71% liking" and I'm like "Anne! It's $50, for one. It's free service, for another. And did you SEE my old phone? I don't give a flip about anything but the base necessities, and yes I will uphold that. I have a tablet I barely leave the netflix and youtube pages. I have zero incentive to fiddle on it. I still get to be the one rolling my eyes and other people doing that and not be a hypocrite. But yeah, a bit of twist of luck, I probably would have use the Nokia until it...like electrified something. I have THAT "male" gene where I'm stubborn about getting rid of things.

I'm still upset about my brother listening to my messages. I mean it was;
  • A message from Anne telling me she was coming home lat (new)
  • Reminder for a doctor's appointment (already saved)
  • Refill confirmation for medicine.


Ooh boy! I bet those were juicy BHM! Tucker! Little pea pod shiitake mushroom for brains.

I hope he enjoys his NES classic, straight up, I do. It's better than him being around his "best friend" our nephew. *grimace*
ShadoPrism
member, 1253 posts
OCGD-Obsessive-Compulsive
Gamer-Disorder
Thu 27 Dec 2018
at 21:32
  • msg #1319

Mircosoft Shiitakes

Today I booted up the Word Pad I have been using for Years - a Notice popped up that I had an 'unliscensed copy' and that I had to get either there Word 365 Supscription Service (base is $99.99) or just Buy a new 'one time' Word 2019 ($149.99).
Now the Word Pad work Perfectly for what I do with it. I could insert pictures in to it, that showed up fine. Crop them, put them where I wanted, etc. The New version, will show the place holders for the pictures, but only show them if IT places them where it wants them, puts them in wierd places and formats and fights me for Everything else I want to do that is any more complex than using it for a typing program.
I really am feeling like I was Robbed by Microsoft because I just wanted to use my Old program that worked Perfectly and had No problems. But because this giant corperation decided they wanted More Money from the little people they disabled the working program and FORCED you to buy their overly expensive and somehow Broken POS programs.

Oh and I did try to just reinstall my old copy - From Disk with the key provided - the pop up came anyway. I contact Microbrains and they said it was because my old program, which is from Windows 7 'is no longer supported'. I told them I did not care, because it WORKED. They threw allot of Marketing garbage at me, I calmly took it apart and told them they were just a corperate cyber bully forcing the little guy in to buying their crap (which I obviously did cause I NEED a working Word program).
So now I am stuck with an expensive broken POS that barely functions in a way my old program did.

Oh I also started to have problems with Notepad to, it keeps flickering and stuttering. Something it did not do before last night, which tells me THEY have done something to it to. The Rat Finks!

Added note: the Program they disabled, Word Pad - the base program that has been in Every computer they have put out in the Last 20 years FOR FREE!
This message was last edited by the user at 21:38, Thu 27 Dec 2018.
Isida KepTukari
member, 243 posts
Elegant! Arrogant! Smart!
Sat 29 Dec 2018
at 02:30
  • msg #1320

Mircosoft Shiitakes

@ShadowPrism - What a bunch of hooey, and shame on Microsoft!  I had a similar problem when I got a new laptop several years ago. They had decided that what every laptop user wanted was a tablet-like interface.  Except this interface was littered with a couple dozen icons to programs I had zero interest in using, or even had no idea what they were!  I couldn't figure out any obvious way to access my documents, files, pictures, or even the Internet!  I had it taken to a computer store to put a desktop simulator on it, because I had absolutely no interest in dealing with random nonsense icons that didn't even let me get at my files in an obvious fashion.  I'm not doing anything more elaborate on my computer than surfing the web, writing on Word, and using iTunes - I don't need dozens of random app icons for that!
horus
member, 637 posts
Wayfarer of the
Western Wastes
Sat 29 Dec 2018
at 09:08
  • msg #1321

Mircosoft Shiitakes

In reply to Isida KepTukari (msg # 1320):

I'm with you on this:  I've been MS-free since 2003.  Get a copy of LibreOffice (free, open source, and cross-platform).  It's even available for Windows.

When you want a real OS, PM me and we'll talk.
Brianna
member, 2167 posts
Sat 29 Dec 2018
at 20:15
  • msg #1322

Mircosoft Shiitakes

In reply to Isida KepTukari (msg # 1320):

Amazon has the same mind set.  I have a Kindle Fire, just got a new one because the old was on its last gasp.  But Amazon wants Fire to be a tablet, and seem to have forgotten it was originally an e-reader.  Icons all over the place, some I don't even recognize, and for many I can't imagine using them on a device with a battery that runs out so quickly just as a reader.  Also too much of it is set up to try and get you to buy something.  Fair enough, but when I'm looking for something in my own library, even if I wanted to buy, I want to find my own stuff first!
Varsovian
member, 1462 posts
Sun 6 Jan 2019
at 20:58
  • msg #1323

RPG blues

I looked at my RPG collection and I realized something:

I will never probably get to play or GM most of this stuff. I haven't even read many of these books. NWoD Changeling and Hunter, Pathfinder, Modiphius' Conan, Star Trek and Infinity... all so great, but still not actually used...

Ugh. I want to play and GM, drat!

Also: I suck at playing. Too often I have invited people to start games, but I had no time to participate in them in the end... People end up wasting time. Ugh, again.

Still, I love RPing... *sulks*
Isida KepTukari
member, 248 posts
Elegant! Arrogant! Smart!
Tue 8 Jan 2019
at 05:58
  • msg #1324

RPG blues

Varsovian - I hear you, so many games, so little time.  I backed a rather expensive tabletop RPG on Kickstarter 2 years ago, assuming I'd get to play it with my local group.  Two years later, when it arrived, everyone but one person has moved at least five states away.  While we'll try to play online, one of the draws of the game were the interesting physical components, so that's a disappointment.  I have settings I've barely scratched the surface of, corners of worlds I have yet to explore, books I've barely cracked, and there are just not enough hours in the day or days of the week to play them all.

I am going to seek out more local players at my FLGS, but that's always a bit of a lengthy process as you try to find people who are not only good gamers, but could also be good friends.
GreyGriffin
member, 256 posts
Portal Expat
Game System Polyglot
Thu 10 Jan 2019
at 22:18
  • msg #1325

RPG blues

I have an opportunity to run a guest session for my friend's West Marches game, and I have cooked up a cool scenario.  It's a bit mechanically intricate, involves several encounters in rapid succession, and requires some problem solving and puzzling.

The players want to start the game at a late hour, and the game is designed to resolve scenarios in one session.  And I just know that one of the players is going to show up so incredibly baked that he won't be able to tell a five foot square from a hole in the ground.
Isida KepTukari
member, 250 posts
Elegant! Arrogant! Smart!
Fri 11 Jan 2019
at 02:18
  • msg #1326

RPG blues

Egads, I feel you GreyGriffin.  You end up being stuck between, "Do I be accommodating for my players, without which I wouldn't be gaming?" and "I am the GM, they wouldn't be able to game if I wasn't there, so I get a bigger say in the circumstances?"

I'd say showing up at a reasonable hour so there's enough time to game and have everyone be sober and alert is an extremely modest request for a game.
OceanLake
member, 1056 posts
Sat 12 Jan 2019
at 20:28
  • msg #1327

RPG blues

Well, if  players are drunk or similar, so are their characters. They are under handicaps accordingly. And it's only fair to warn them well before the session.
Yaztromo
member, 220 posts
Sat 12 Jan 2019
at 22:00
  • msg #1328

Re: RPG blues

GreyGriffin:
I have an opportunity to run a guest session for my friend's West Marches game, and I have cooked up a cool scenario. 

Maybe you want to share it with us, after running it...
ShadoPrism
member, 1255 posts
OCGD-Obsessive-Compulsive
Gamer-Disorder
Fri 8 Feb 2019
at 22:16
  • msg #1329

Effing crooked companies

Last year I bought a 'blue ray' player for my computer ($100) only to get it home and learn I had to pay another $100 to get the blue ray Codex unlocked - here I am just a year later and they want me to pay $60 for the 'new upgrade' so I can watch my Old videos on top of it They locked me out of even using the stupid thing so I can't watch ANY video's on it at all. I got about $100 worth of new video's I want to watch but because of these crooks I Can't. The bad part is this is LG, and they make the Only blue ray player compatible with my computer. Belive me I have looked. SO PISSED OFF right now.
Isida KepTukari
member, 256 posts
Elegant! Arrogant! Smart!
Thu 14 Feb 2019
at 10:10
  • msg #1330

Effing crooked companies

*sigh*  When you're stressed or busy or sleep-deprived, the posting rate is through the roof and you feel like you'll never catch up.  But have a few calm days where you have all the time in the world (so much so you're obsessively refreshing the site to see if there's anything new in your games), crickets.
Samus Aran
member, 425 posts
Author, game designer
Part-time Metroid fighter
Fri 15 Feb 2019
at 15:45
  • msg #1331

The Farce is strong with this one

I see "shame Disney killed Star Wars" a lot, typically in reference to the EU being superior...when I think the Star Wars EU is one of, if not the worst, ever committed to fandom. For one thing, they retread the same things far more than the new trilogy does, and has a serious case of Yet Another Superweapon. "It's like the Death Star...but bigger!" "Here's the clone Emperor who can destroy fleets with Force storms!"

Second, it has a problem with taking any given thing from the movies and trying to make it into a thing it shouldn't be. "Tarkin's Disease." Seriously. Instead of Leia's remark about smelling Tarkin's stench being simply a heroic jab flung at the bad guy, it becomes an EU thing where it's a disease that makes people stink. Though nobody else noticed, mentioned, or reacted as though it was anything but the detest that it obviously was.

I enjoyed The Force Awakens for what it was, and I may be in the minority but I really thought The Last Jedi was good Star Wars in the vein of Empire. I'd kill for some Star Wars roleplaying in that era, but I see a lot of disdain for it in favor of the EU that makes it rather difficult, I guess!
Holobunny
member, 72 posts
Thu 28 Feb 2019
at 03:55
  • [deleted]
  • msg #1332

Letter vs. Spirit

This message was deleted by a moderator, as it was against the ToU, at 06:22, Thu 28 Feb 2019.
Starchaser
member, 547 posts
GMT+0
http://bit.ly/2NvdzWG
Thu 7 Mar 2019
at 13:17
  • msg #1333

Confused

Ok. So Ive only ever in the entire history of being on rpol (Which is a LONG time) been banned by one GM. And that was an rtj sumbission that turned into an (apparent) misunderstanding that turned into what seemed to be a personal attack for no reason. That was a year ago.

I just clicked on a wanted add to find someone else has banned me. What's odd is that Ive never joined the game and don't recognise the GM at all.

If you have a problem with me then fine but at least tell me what it is. At least we can try to sort it out (I tried my best the last time this happened)

And just in case a mistake is made I'm not the guy who runs Project Starchaser. He got the idea off me (I once ran a game called the voidwalker project that its based on) but I'm not him. I say that because I know some people don't get on with him including someone who I consider a friend (though haven't spoken to for a while which I regret).
This message was last edited by the user at 13:30, Thu 07 Mar 2019.
bigbadron
moderator, 15706 posts
He's big, he's bad,
but mostly he's Ron.
Thu 7 Mar 2019
at 14:15

Confused

In reply to Starchaser (msg # 1333):

It might be the same GM, and he's had a name change.
Starchaser
member, 548 posts
GMT+0
http://bit.ly/2NvdzWG
Thu 7 Mar 2019
at 14:21
  • msg #1335

Re: Confused

bigbadron:
In reply to Starchaser (msg # 1333):

It might be the same GM, and he's had a name change.



Thank you. Because if that's the case it makes me feel a whole lot better!
Puckohue
member, 27 posts
Fri 8 Mar 2019
at 13:16
  • msg #1336

Always...

Why do I always get these kind of replies:

When suggesting a feature at a site: "You could do this by manually making a lot of different signs or entering a lot of code". As if I didn't realise this! I know I could! I'm suggesting the implementation of a feature that will make it easier to do whatever it was about. *groan*

When asking about a rule interpretation: "It doesn't matter - you can do whatever you want in your game." As if I didn't know! I'm assuming if someone publishes game rules they have playtested the rules, or at least by asking I can find out the best practices developed by the community. If I wanted to invent rules by myself I wouldn't have bought the rules in the first place. *groan*

When asking about some detail about some published setting: "It doesn't matter - you can do whatever you want in your game." - I KNOW! But: I have several times had to improvise details that later caused problems with published material I didn't have access to at the time. If I ask things like "Is Rohlester a kingdom?" it's because I want to know what the canon is, not because I don't realise I can say it is whatever I want it to be. *groan*
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