Dream Sequence:
This question is meant not just to be snarky, I think that you're right that the subject veers precariously close to RL uncomfortable or controversial issues, but I also think that at least some of that discomfort or controversy could be lessened by keeping the motivations of the IC world creators plausible and relatable.
So in that light: If the godling hated men and had the power to create her own whole race from scratch, why would she keep around any of the trappings of maleness at all? Why wouldn't she have just made the whole race wholly female, and given them the ability to reproduce via magic or some such?
Well, this was based on a dream, but to add some detail that hindsight tells me is important here,
The godling in question (her name never came up in my dream and I haven't chosen one yet so we'll go with Fera for now), grew up being told that men were bigger, stronger, and tougher, and that is why only men got to do certain jobs and why women were more restrained. To her mind, it wasn't removing a whole gender, it was removing what she saw as the source of the problem, so she made "men" who were not bigger, not stronger, and not tougher. Her methodology was basically to c&p women and edit back reproductive ability and call it a day.
Of course, that is just how it came to be in my dream.
Aliens are aliens, so they are kind of allowed to be different in such ways, but these are simply altered humans, minimally altered really.
I don't really want to be crazy about altering the reproduction and I already have hermaphrodites.
But more importantly, what was the goal of Fera in making them? To remove the impetus for "we're tougher and stronger and therfore you do what we tell you" of which going with men being tiny small or insignificant just flips who suffers rather than supposedly making the problem go away (supposedly, cause no reason it must be a successful attempt).
A monogender works but is less simple than simply making all women, half of whom have each type of reproductive equipment.
I like all the suggestions, but I think for Fera, simplest is probably the most fitting.