Why didn't they read the trial post before doing trials?
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Alloy Archmage: I agreed that RL can be crazy, and you wont have tmie to play games at will due to RL. that parts sensible
[Team] Alloy Archmage: it's the 'I can't read about CoX because Im too busy with RL... and playing CoX several times'.
Time budgeting has become a topic of much arg for Tim and I. Put it on calendar a month in advance, tell family about it repeatedly, make it an ongoing thing every weekend at the same time every. single. week... STILL get "so what you doing this evening?" from parents on weekends. Every. Single. Week.
That's the only thing we bother scheduling any more because it's necessary to keep our "would be late for his own funeral" friend anywhere near reliable. Most everything else, we no longer bother scheduling in advance. Life has been so predictably unpredictable that we know with absolute certainty that if we schedule something important to us, something more important WILL crop up to cancel the appointment.
So prioritizing what to do next has long been on a moment-by-moment thing for us. There's always piles to do with differing levels of urgency. Work on art, research insurance, deal with money issues, take car to garage, do trash, watch a TV show, reply to RPOL posts, play some CoX, etc. etc. Never nothing to do.
Speaking for myself, I literally don't have any free time at all unless I'm procrastinating on some RL thing that needs done. I've had to learn the art of "OK sure, I'll get on that" (but not right now) delay tactics in order to ever do anything fun. I'm rather proud of figuring out how to sneak RPOL posts printout into work and read / reply to them in the 10-20 second gaps of dead time I have to do so in between phone calls. Then when home, type up the handwritten posts over reheated dinner during mandatory TV time with old man. With this technique I've learned to squeeze a few more minutes out of my at-home time so I can do stuff I want to. Again, only because I'm putting off fixing dad's watch or dealing with cleanup.
So when Tim and I have a moment of peace from "the gauntlet" downstairs, I'll ask, "So what you wunna do? I'd like to watch the last of Cowboy Bebop so I can delete it off my HD." Tim: "Well I'd like to get some accomplished on my comic, and there's these DA comments to answer." Me: "I've got stuff to do too. Lemme know if you decide on something we can do together." Tim: "Joe's on. Let's see if he wants to hang out on CoX." Me: "OK."
CoX time has made the cut! So it's time to focus on actually enjoying CoX. Oh. Char needs enhanced. Meh. Chore. Not fun. No time for that. Time to play! Inventory near full. Uh... well... Joe hasn't logged on yet, probably juust enough time to dump stuff in AH. Joe logs in about when inventory chores are done. Score! Let's XP. Oh yeah! Tips! Great way 2 have fun AND earn CoX cash. Fun with side benefit that would otherwise be a chore. Score!
/remembers the other day when Tim and Joe did trial with only minor hitch in the time it took me to nap. /also remembers only ;.; was Emmy picked the "wrong" reward. Eh. Whatevs. Don't have time now to bother with looking up what the "right" reward is. Maybe there'll be time when waiting in that que thing. Worse comes to worst, I'll just have learned how to survive a trial without having picked the right reward.
*Reskims Joe post on trials* Picking rewards sure looks complicated. *Skims for "SUPER IMPORTANT" Oh yeah! Turn on League chat. Done. Oh! Time to get started! I didn't expect it to be so fast. I guess if there's something important, it'll be mentioned in the trial...
Trial goes well! We win! /desperately try to figure out what pick to take before exiting. Another trial forming already? /guesses a pick. Exits. Immediately taken to next trial.
Trial goes well! We win! /desperately try to figure out what pick to take before exiting. Another trial forming already? /guesses a pick. Exits.
3rd trial a no go. So now I get to find out how badly I picked while Tim figures out what he wants to do next... Starts looking... Joe super unhappy even though trial went well, threatening to murder brother. Oh. Obviously he's being silly. But Tim took it seriously. Did I miss something here? When did Joe suddenly become serious business in CoX with his "won't ever use set bonuses" and his "let's facepalm at Freepyface for his 'wah wah i fail because i can't solo cape mish on +4x8'" and his "stopping to shoot the breeze in the middle of XP missions even though he hates losing HP" etc.
Joe insists multiple times, "This is the one thing I arg over." OK. So he's serious business about the one thing. But didn't ask us before trial started if we were ready for the one thing that matters so much to him that he's making death threats after a successful trial. Oh he
assumed we had studied the post carefully. So we explained, "no time." Now I feel like he's calling us liars because we do tips rather than read up on trials.
/heavysigh. Of course I'd made assumptions too. Here I thought "SUPER IMPORTANT" meant "I want to save you some hassle so I'm going to go to the effort of text dump what I learned the hard way. Your loss if you learn the hard way too" (which is appreciated) not "I will all caps 'light strangers on fire with my mind' if they dare fail me in this one thing." Tim and I were thinking, "If we ever get the rare opportunity to do a trial, we'll likely be very fail at it, get screamed at by serious business players, read up on Joe's post to find out what gives because the screaming people aren't being helpful, then be a little better prepared for the 2nd go around." Neeever crossed our minds that Joe would be among the screamers.
How does one accurately describe "what we didn't even realize was super important to
you was so low on our priority scale that it barely even registered on the to-do list?" Me, I do not enjoy pouring over game mechanics. I enjoy playing games. I barely put up with pouring over game mechanics when doing so improves my enjoyment of the game. When the effort of game mechanics pouring > than the increase in fun, I put it off till I have absolutely nothing better to do, such as the time when thanksgiving dinner was over and I had my netbook with gamma world books on it, so I read that. (Discovered to my delight that Gamma World was originally a very simple system for chargenning if you don't houserule it. Then return and find out "piles of effort required to play with Seth.")
So. Reading up on game mechanics low on priority list, even when friends make it clear it's required. Will bump up to "won't do trials till after reading this" level priority if said friend says, "Trials? Did you read the part about Acid? I'm not starting until you read that part." Problem solved!
EDIT: This picture illustrates what I think is going through Joe's mind...
http://img.photobucket.com/alb...well/riddlerooms.png
Big guy: "You pick NOW to read the book on translating the hyroglyphs, not BEFORE we entered this place?!"
This message was last edited by the player at 06:05, Tue 06 Dec 2011.