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Absences.

Posted by FelaricaFor group 0
Felarica
NPC, 1 post
Silver Dragon
Sage and Seer
Tue 13 Sep 2011
at 21:29
  • msg #1

Absences

Here the players can post, if they are going to be absent from the game for any length of time just so as it doesnt get lost in the OOC threads.

Like on Holidays, no internet, Work stuff, Needing a break etc.
Jafilla
GM, 58 posts
Mute Silver Dragon
Tue 13 Sep 2011
at 21:33
  • msg #2

Re: Absences

Like me !

I am heading down to Eugene Oregon to FW's again from Sept 15 to Sept 20 and will have limited to NO Internet. Will catch up on the 21st. !

Cheers
The White Fairy
GM, 96 posts
Faerie
Profession: Adventurer
Tue 13 Sep 2011
at 23:02
  • msg #3

Re: Absences

Same with me as well, heading over to Eugene Oregon as well.  Limited to no internet but will bring my laptop no matter what so hopefully I can still keep up on posts.  Otherwise will be back to regular posts when I get back.
Jehan
player, 102 posts
Spirit Fey
Force
Wed 14 Sep 2011
at 06:16
  • msg #4

Re: Absences

Me as well. Also bringing my laptop, but lets face it: FAERIEWORLDS! I dont think I will be opening it much.
Rowena
player, 144 posts
Dark Fairy
Thu 15 Sep 2011
at 01:29
  • msg #5

Re: Absences

I am going to be so lonely here.
Saud
player, 34 posts
Half-human, Half-dragon
Thu 15 Sep 2011
at 01:31
  • msg #6

Re: Absences

They did say they would be around hopefully. Plus Jafilla's still posting.
Jafilla
GM, 61 posts
Mute Silver Dragon
Thu 15 Sep 2011
at 01:53
  • msg #7

Re: Absences

Jafilla is going as well. Tonight is my last night home.

WE'll see how much time we have on the 2 laptops that were going.

J
Crystal Shine
player, 38 posts
Sat 22 Oct 2011
at 10:26
  • msg #8

Re: Absences

From Thursday the 27th of OCT to 31st of OCT, I will be away and unable to post
Crystal Shine
player, 41 posts
Sun 6 Nov 2011
at 00:10
  • msg #9

Re: Absences

my pc's ac adapter just gave in, at least i hope its the AC... if its my laptop im screwed! i'll update... if i can get to a pc again
Storyteller
GM, 177 posts
Writer of Words
Fri 9 Dec 2011
at 05:47
  • msg #10

Re: Absences

To all those within my Games.

Christmas, Yule, Hanukkah is upon us, and I know that many of us will be busy spending time with our family and friends, and thus the games may slow, or you may feel guilty for not posting. Do not worry about it. I too as a DM will be busy visiting and celebrating, both Yule and Xmas and completely understand if you are unable to get onto Rpol.

That is, Until Jan 3rd, 2012 ( Giving 2 hangover days - Grins ) After that, I will be returning to the 3 day Posting before I move the thread forward, whether you have posted or not.

Hope you ALL have a great Holiday, and that peace, and love bring you joy throughout it. ( alright, thats enough mushy stuff - Back to gaming )

Your DM !
The Undead Lord
NPC, 3 posts
Fri 9 Dec 2011
at 18:38
  • msg #11

Re: Absences

Thanks for your understanding.  My apoligies for not posting in a while though.  With the holdays and a new job and family time, I've been very busy.  But hoping to make a post some time this weekend.
Felarica
NPC, 2 posts
Silver Dragon
Sage and Seer
Sat 24 Dec 2011
at 22:41
  • msg #12

Re: Absences

Greetings to all in my World, no matter what game you play in.

I will be updating, if I havent already, On Boxing day.

Happy holidays, Merry Christmas, Happy Hanukkah and Blessed Be to you all ! Wish you all a Very Merry Holidays, and hope that the season brings you joy, light and love.

FD
Faerie Queen
player, 37 posts
Fri 10 Feb 2012
at 06:22
  • msg #13

Re: Absences

Your DM is going away in the Am Early and going to be Gone Until Sunday. ! I will catch up Monday ! Attending FaerieCon West In Seattle ! Weeeheee

FQ

This Includes Bubbles and Jafilla
Crystal Shine
player, 52 posts
Fri 10 Feb 2012
at 23:35
  • msg #14

Re: Absences

I've gotten a little sick, expect me gone for up to a week.
Faerie Queen
player, 38 posts
Mon 13 Feb 2012
at 23:49
  • msg #15

Re: Absences

Get better Crystal Shine !
Crystal Shine
player, 53 posts
Tue 14 Feb 2012
at 00:00
  • msg #16

Re: Absences

^^' Thanks will do. I'm able to post now I think, my mum brought the Medicare I asked her to get in October
Crystal Shine
player, 54 posts
Mon 20 Feb 2012
at 06:22
  • msg #17

Re: Absences

may 23rd to may 27th I will be away at mcme expo london. so will have no net access.
Flora
player, 11 posts
Flower Fey
Mon 9 Jul 2012
at 18:40
  • msg #18

Re: Absences

Leaving July 13th through the 15th. Will attempt to post but no promises :)
Storyteller
GM, 220 posts
Writer of Words
Sat 21 Jul 2012
at 03:57
  • msg #19

Re: Absences

Just so you know.

Your DM, Bubbles, and Jafilla ( me, me and me ) will be away at FaerieWorlds.com in Eugene Oregon.

We Leave on the 26 of July, but I suspect I will be busy all day on the 25th packing and such, and we get back late on the 30th of July. I will try and catch up Tuesday the 31st, but no guarantees.
The White Fairy
GM, 142 posts
Faerie
Profession: Adventurer
Sat 21 Jul 2012
at 04:18
  • msg #20

Re: Absences

I will be at Faerieworlds also but will have access to my laptop and will check in from time to time when I am at the hotel getting ready for bed time.
This message was last updated by the GM at 04:18, Sat 21 July 2012.
Jehan
player, 151 posts
Spirit Fey
Force
Sat 21 Jul 2012
at 05:21
  • msg #21

Re: Absences

I will also be at Faerieworlds. I will be bringing my laptop, so I will be reading posts perhaps, but my concentration will be more focused on the festivities.
Bubbles
player, 217 posts
The wishes of water will
soothe the world's rage.
Wed 1 Aug 2012
at 14:16
  • msg #22

Re: Absences

Bubbles is back from the realm of Faeries ( And so is your DM )
The White Fairy
GM, 144 posts
Faerie
Profession: Adventurer
Thu 2 Aug 2012
at 05:37
  • msg #23

Re: Absences

~in a raspy harsh voice~ "If anyone cares, I'm back to."
Rowena
player, 215 posts
Dark Fairy
Fri 3 Aug 2012
at 02:57
  • msg #24

Re: Absences

I will be gone this weekend. Not sure about getting on.
Storyteller
GM, 225 posts
Writer of Words
Fri 17 Aug 2012
at 13:19
  • msg #25

Re: Absences

Greetings all

I am going camping today, and will be back Sunday. Will try to catch up on Monday and Tuesday as I will have no computer access.

Hope everyone is having a great summer

- Bubbles, and Jafilla
Storyteller
GM, 228 posts
Writer of Words
Fri 31 Aug 2012
at 05:19
  • msg #26

Re: Absences

To all those within my games. I am heading out tomorrow ( being Friday ) over to Vancouver to spend the weekend to my aunts house, and therefore will not be online. Havent seen her in almost 2 years. I will catch up with everything on Monday.

Think this is pretty much my last trip to Xmas when, while I will not be going away, it will be busy.

Cheers !

See you all Monday !
Storyteller
GM, 243 posts
Writer of Words
Sat 27 Oct 2012
at 05:44
  • msg #27

Re: Absences

Greetings to all my players

I Am here, but currently have a broken computer. and a broke new computer ( purchased today and it doesnt work - Sigh so is going back ) I have limited use on my Other halfs computer right now.

Hopefully it will be fixed by this weekend and I can catch up on all that I owe !
Rowena
player, 236 posts
Dark Fairy
Tue 30 Oct 2012
at 04:57
  • msg #28

Re: Absences

No worries, I have had a busy week with work, family events and preparing for and attending my cousin's Halloween party.  But I am back and ready for action.
Storyteller
GM, 244 posts
Writer of Words
Wed 31 Oct 2012
at 01:45
  • msg #29

Re: Absences

Sounds good Rowena !
Computer is new, and some files rescued. ! My maps were anyhow, so its all good to go
Storyteller
GM, 250 posts
Writer of Words
Sat 1 Dec 2012
at 18:41
  • msg #30

Re: Absences

Greetings all

Dec 1st is upon us, and with that, the holiday season. Normally I update either every 3 days or once a week, pending the game. Due to the holiday season, and everyone out with family and friends celebrating, I understand that things will slow down. I will post when necessary, but allow you all the time needed during the month of December. I am not saying, Don't post, I just don't want you to feel pressured with RPol and Having to keep your posts up

Come January 2nd, I will be back to the Normal posting rate of whichever game you are in.

Hope everyone enjoys their festive season ! Thanks SO much for being a part of my game this year !

Faeries Dance - Your DM and Host
Storyteller
GM, 252 posts
Writer of Words
Mon 24 Dec 2012
at 19:31
  • msg #31

Re: Absences


Storyteller
GM, 267 posts
Writer of Words
Fri 22 Feb 2013
at 06:48
  • msg #32

Re: Absences

Gone to Faerie Con for the weekend. Back on Monday. !
Storyteller
GM, 286 posts
Writer of Words
Mon 3 Jun 2013
at 03:36
  • msg #33

Re: Absences

Alright everyone.

Just to let you all know. Your DM, being me, is getting married on June 15th. The next few weeks are going to be crazy busy for me prior to the wedding, but I will try and post as often as I can.

Then we will be away on our honeymoon from the 16 - 21  ( only a few days as I will have 18 year old dogs that we are taking with us, as I dont want to leave them for long )

I suspect the weekend of the 22 and 23rd will be when I catch up on things and we return to normal.

Thanks !
Rowena
player, 271 posts
Dark Fairy
Tue 4 Jun 2013
at 00:36
  • msg #34

Re: Absences

Congratulations and good luck. Hope you have a great honeymoon and we will miss you.  Marriage is a great thing!
Storyteller
GM, 287 posts
Writer of Words
Tue 4 Jun 2013
at 05:59
  • msg #35

Re: Absences

Thanks Rowena !
Faerie Queen
player, 40 posts
Wed 24 Jul 2013
at 21:45
  • msg #36

Re: Absences

Greetings all my players !

Its that time of year again, where Faerieworlds is a happening ( www.faerieworlds.com ) and I will be heading down tomorrow at 430 am and coming back late on the 29th, so will catch up on the 30th.

We will see you all when I get back !

Speaking for Bubbles, and Jafilla !
Storyteller
GM, 312 posts
Writer of Words
Mon 2 Dec 2013
at 16:47
  • msg #37

Re: Absences

Greetings to all my players !

December 1st is upon us and I know Xmas is a busy time of year for everyone, so for the month of December, the game is switching to a post when you can, I know your busy mode.

I myself know I am going to be busy as I thought to myself, I know what I will give mom for Xmas, I will stay late at work and scan all her pictures of us growing up and digitize them. Ha ha ha ha. I am averaging about 80 / hour for scanning, and thats NOT cropping, straightening or colorizing / Editing. I have scanned 600, ( And edited 350 ) and estimated I have another, oooh, perhaps 2000 to scan ( At least ), and before Xmas ( Sigh )  Then I will be picking some and putting them to video

So alas,Rpol will be a secondary priority until I get that done. Sorry

I will still try and post in my spare time, just wanted you all to know, I have not left the game and will be back in full force in Jan !

Your GM !

Merry Xmas, Happy Hanukkah and Happy Yule ALL !
The White Fairy
NPC, 231 posts
Faerie
Profession: Adventurer
Wed 4 Dec 2013
at 02:54
  • msg #38

Re: Absences

Fairy Christmas and a Spriteful Yule to you all.
Storyteller
GM, 313 posts
Writer of Words
Wed 4 Dec 2013
at 23:36
  • msg #39

Re: Absences

Thanks White. Same to you
Rowena
player, 300 posts
Dark Fairy
Thu 5 Dec 2013
at 03:16
  • msg #40

Re: Absences

Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!
Faerie Queen
player, 42 posts
Mon 23 Dec 2013
at 14:33
  • msg #41

Re: Absences

Joyous Yule ! Merry Christmas ! Happy Hanukkah, Merry Kwanzaa !

Thanks to all my players for another great year and I hope you all have a fantastic holiday ! Doing Xmas with the Husbands folks today and tomorrow, then with my family on the 25th, so wont be on the computer much ! We`ll see you all on the 26th

Your DM Faeries Dance!
Faerie Queen
player, 43 posts
Fri 21 Feb 2014
at 06:05
  • msg #42

Re: Absences

Hey ya all !

Your DM will be away, starting tonight, until late on the 24th. Will return to normal on the 25th.

Heading down to Faerie Con ! Weeheee
Storyteller
GM, 340 posts
Writer of Words
Mon 14 Jul 2014
at 15:18
  • msg #43

Re: Absences

Sorry everyone.

All my games are on hold for a few weeks, due to the loss of my 19 year old little girl dog today. Havent felt like writing, due to her being sick, and trying to get her to eat, but I have been unsuccessful in this and so in a few hours,  I will be taking her to the vet for her final visit. I have spent the weekend cuddling instead of writing.


Also next Monday I go on holidays from the 21 - 28th.

Games will resume then.

Again, sorry everyone, but I promise I will catch up then !
Iriosxihuuli
player, 33 posts
Ir ios
xihuuli
Mon 14 Jul 2014
at 18:42
  • msg #44

Re: Absences


 My condolences for your loss. Take the time you need then get back to us when you can!
Storyteller
GM, 341 posts
Writer of Words
Mon 22 Sep 2014
at 05:31
  • msg #45

Re: Absences

Back, but not sure what I want to do with this game. There hasnt really been a game post since may.

It was quiet before, and don't want to close it down, but also realize I might be short on time with working extra and getting two new puppies.

So I will leave it, and if it moves it moves. if not, then thats alright to.

It can also just be a social of we want in the ooc.
This message was last edited by the player at 05:31, Mon 22 Sept 2014.
Faerie Queen
player, 44 posts
Thu 11 Dec 2014
at 14:27
  • msg #46

Re: Absences

Alright,

Xmas is crazy, and I know thats pretty much the case for everyone. The last week for me has been nuts, working full time, then baked close to 20 dozen cookies. On top of two xmas parties already, and another 4 to go.

I will try to keep up, but will probably resume again ( like last year ) after Xmas.

Hope everyone has a great Xmas ! Yule and Hanukkah.
Iriosxihuuli
player, 35 posts
Ir ios
xihuuli
Thu 11 Dec 2014
at 19:51
  • msg #47

Re: Absences


 Compliments of the season!
Jafilla
GM, 362 posts
Mute Silver Dragon
Mon 9 Feb 2015
at 00:11
  • msg #48

Re: Absences

Thanks Irio

Have been crazy busy with 2 jobs, and two new puppies. I don't remember them being this much work, but thinking back, they might have been and I have just tuned it out !
Then I still have my 19 1/2 year old male, who just keeps a puttering.

Anyhow, Not sure what to do with this game, was pretty quiet before, and my other three games are still moving slowly. Might just put this one and the fey one on hold. Definitely the fey one I think. The dragon one was moving faster then the Fey one before.
Iriosxihuuli
player, 36 posts
Ir ios
xihuuli
Mon 9 Feb 2015
at 03:10
  • msg #49

Re: Absences


 Well, I'm happy to move along at the pace you feel comfortable with. We're not in any hurry, are we?
Storyteller
GM, 344 posts
Writer of Words
Tue 10 Feb 2015
at 16:09
  • msg #50

Re: Absences

Nope, Not in a hurry at all

Dont really want to close the thread, so guess we'll just leave it as it is
Faerie Queen
player, 45 posts
Fri 20 Feb 2015
at 06:54
  • msg #51

Re: Absences

Off to Mythic Fair. Back Tuesday
Iriosxihuuli
player, 37 posts
Ir ios
xihuuli
Fri 20 Feb 2015
at 21:12
  • msg #52

Re: Absences


 Have fun!
Blaze
player, 245 posts
Red Dragon
Wed 25 Feb 2015
at 02:46
  • msg #53

Re: Absences

I am still around, so slow recently on RPOL.
Storyteller
GM, 345 posts
Writer of Words
Sat 14 Mar 2015
at 19:33
  • msg #54

Re: Absences

yep, its been slow everywhere. That being said, got hit with a major sinus infection 5 ays after my trip. Been out of commission for two weeks. I NEVER want another one. It was brutal. Felt like my head, and ears were going to explode, couldnt walk for days without dizziness and white stars. Spent a week on the couch, hating life.
Iriosxihuuli
player, 38 posts
Ir ios
xihuuli
Sun 15 Mar 2015
at 00:14
  • msg #55

Re: Absences


 Blech, here's hoping you're feeling a great deal better!
Storyteller
GM, 346 posts
Writer of Words
Sun 15 Mar 2015
at 04:38
  • msg #56

Re: Absences

yep, feeling better now. 10 days of antibiotics 3 times a day and steroids to boost its effectiveness apparently seemed to help. Though its not all gone. Recheck on Mon, so we shall see
Iriosxihuuli
player, 39 posts
Ir ios
xihuuli
Sun 15 Mar 2015
at 15:40
  • msg #57

Re: Absences


 Huzzah for the benefits of modern medicine!
Storyteller
GM, 347 posts
Writer of Words
Wed 29 Apr 2015
at 06:13
  • msg #58

Re: Absences

Sorry All

Life is bascially been crazy.

We had a holiday to FW in mid \feb, then came home to work chaos.

We are trying to fix the house to go up for sale, having to build a new deck and fence, then paint them, as well as a whole bunch of other stuff, as we need to buy a new house, one We can move my business to, as that place is falling down ( as in, the septic field is collapsed,  so no laundry or flushing toilets, and the walls are filled with rat excrutiments, so it wont last there much longer ) nor will we.

In the middle of all that, for two weeks, it was touch and go with the puppies as apparently they got into steel wool and rat poison from our shed being left open, blocking their breathing passages and such. Once that as done, the old dog had a major stroke. All the Dogs are fine, but was a rough month. Still have to finish the deck and a few things, then house goes up for sale.

I suspect, buying a new place and setting up / moving shop will take some time, but I dont want to gve up on the game. I just need a bit more time. Once settled in a new place, or even having this one listed, ( Not doing work on it constantly- can say I am getting tired of it, seeing as I co own it, and I seem to be the one doing it ) I just want a break, so I can go back to normal life, which includes my writing and hula hooping ( which I havent had time for either )

Anyhow, Just wanted to updatee you all. Thank you soo much for understanding
Iriosxihuuli
player, 40 posts
Ir ios
xihuuli
Thu 30 Apr 2015
at 00:00
  • msg #59

Re: Absences


Reality comes first, no question about it. Look after yourself and we'll be around when you get back...
Faerie Queen
player, 46 posts
Sun 7 Jun 2015
at 15:23
  • msg #60

Re: Absences

update -

House went up for sale, three days ago. already had 3 showings so crossing my fingers.

Also, lost my old man last Sat. 10 days shy of his 20th birthday. been a rough week. but we move forward. Hopefully soon, life will get back to normal
Iriosxihuuli
player, 41 posts
Ir ios
xihuuli
Sun 7 Jun 2015
at 15:35
  • msg #61

Re: Absences


 Good luck with the house and my condolences on your loss.
Jafilla
GM, 363 posts
Mute Silver Dragon
Tue 23 Jun 2015
at 15:22
  • msg #62

Re: Absences

House still up for sale, no bites yet ! Have to say, having to keep the house Spotless is really a PAIN in the arse ! Not that my house isnt clean, but I Vacumme once a week normally, verses every second day now, that sort of thing.


but am going to try and get more writing in, Really miss it, as I discoverer this morning, when my two puppies got me up well before my alarm clock, and caught up on some writing before having to go to work.
Iriosxihuuli
player, 42 posts
Ir ios
xihuuli
Tue 23 Jun 2015
at 18:49
  • msg #63

Re: Absences


 Heh, I know exactly what you mean - we keep our place sorta' clean but clutter just seems to emerge from every corner!
Faerie Queen
player, 47 posts
Fri 9 Oct 2015
at 05:19
  • msg #64

Re: Absences

Sorry all

I feel really bad, but life right now, is just far to crazy, with having to work full time, then be out of the house for the constant showings, entertaining the two puppys and on top of that, some witch stole my cat, so now am preparing for court on that frount. I havent even had time to hula hoop off my frustrations with my life right now, with all that's happening in it. I want to keep the games but I think they are going on a perma hold until this flipping house sells and I get settled in a new place ( where one of my jobs will move to, so NO driving time and possibly more writing time )

Getting sick off all the " lookie loo's " with NO offers. Gawd, I miss writing so much and I know my aggravation is just growing as the weeks pass, with no spare time, with everything so up in the air and just plain messed up. I have DND, raiding on Wow, and work, pretty much tying up all my evenings now.

Even work is against me.

I used to get off at 2 cause my partner worked, now, shes getting slower and slower, not wanting to be there.  I am doing 3/4 of the work, and we arent getting out till 330 ish. I then have to shower, change, eat and be out the door by 430 for work or 530 for dnd / or work in the evening. Just the other night, on thurs, my bad day of double jobs ( 720 - 330 - 5 - 9) my second job, which I get of at 9 kept me till 1020 Cause things were just too messed up, that they needed fixing. I pretty much lost it that night on the drive home.

I am sorry, I didnt mean to off load here I just wanted you all to know, you are NOT forgotten. Just on hold till I sell my house.
Iriosxihuuli
player, 43 posts
Ir ios
xihuuli
Fri 9 Oct 2015
at 05:48
  • msg #65

Re: Absences


 Hey, we are the *perfect* people to unload upon. We don't know you in reality but we know you a little in fiction and we obviously like you well enough to stick around, so you get the catharsis of venting and we get to know you're at least sorta' okay. Hang in there!
Faerie Queen
player, 48 posts
Fri 9 Oct 2015
at 13:37
  • msg #66

Re: Absences

Thanks Irio.

Somethings gonna need to happen soon, cause, I am running low on steam. Id like t quite both my jobs, but cant, cause I have to buy a new house to put one of the jobs in to it. Maybee I should just move across the country, where no one knows me and I have no jobs that my loyalty keeps me at, despite being extremely unhappy
Iriosxihuuli
player, 44 posts
Ir ios
xihuuli
Fri 9 Oct 2015
at 17:54
  • msg #67

Re: Absences


 Happiness isn't a paycheck, but it's easier to achieve with one. Friends too - I moved to the U.S. a couple of years ago and the combination of culture shock (this place is a nuthatch) and losing my friends at home was a major break - but in the end, one I seem to have handled. I guess you just have to come down to asking yourself what you want to be doing, compare it to your bank balamce (which latter step is why I'm not sailing around the world on a self-cleaning sex yacht) and figure out how to get there (aka: the tricky step).
Blaze
player, 246 posts
Red Dragon
Mon 12 Oct 2015
at 02:17
  • msg #68

Re: Absences

In reply to Faerie Queen  (msg # 64):

Good luck with all of your issues. We all have our ups and downs.  Hopefully you will be stronger when you get though them and can look back at how you did it. But we are still here so don't worry and unload anytime you want.

I know how you feel, I tend to feel loyal to my good bosses and I have one now but I still applied for a new one that will pay more. Ultimately you have to think what is best for you and for family and your mental health.
Storyteller
GM, 348 posts
Writer of Words
Tue 8 Dec 2015
at 15:49
  • msg #69

Re: Absences

Just an update

Hope you all are having a fantastic Holiday month.

Court date for the Cat is Jan 13 2016, though she is denying having my cat. Been heading out there a couple times a week to try and find her, but as she was feral whens he moved into my house, I suspect she has reverted and we arent going to.

Still working two jobs, with longer hours then I like. We brought in a " student " to help at the dog shop, with me having hopes that he could stay, but dog grooming is an art, and we are spending more time babysitting, so its sinking more time then normal.

My one night off has been filled with getting court papers, hunting for my cat, trying to keep my puppies entertained, and ultimately, just veging on the couch, wishing my house would sell so I could downsize hours

I just had to fix my cars Catalytic converter to the tune of very expensive ( 980 for just the part ) and now a rock just broke my windshield. Sigh, but thats not getting fixed till the summer, thats just the way it is.

On a positive note, the puppies are fantastic, though I miss my old dogs too. the German Sheppard from the upstairs tenant, love the pups so she comes down to play most days. I started swimming before work three days a week ( more time gone ) and in Jan have been asked to teach a dance through the ages dance class ( SCA dancers at war with SCA currently, apparently. I have been dreaming of selling my house and moving to the other side of the country where no one can find me, and where I can buy a house outright, and have time again....

Ah well, games still on hold until further notice, and while I would like to say I will try, my busy life doesnt look likes its going to slow until I sell this house. Move to a new one, move the grooming shop into it ( where I will have a computer while waiting for customers to pick up !!! that I can write on ) and no driving time, and then drop my second job, once we look at the budget.

Wishing you all well,and the best holidays !!

Hugs
Iriosxihuuli
player, 45 posts
Ir ios
xihuuli
Tue 8 Dec 2015
at 20:45
  • msg #70

Re: Absences


 Happy Holidays and fingers crossed for things getting better for you soon!
Blaze
player, 247 posts
Red Dragon
Wed 9 Dec 2015
at 02:30
  • msg #71

Re: Absences

Happy Holidays. Good luck with everything.
Faerie Queen
player, 49 posts
Fri 17 Jun 2016
at 03:59
  • msg #72

Re: Absences

Ok all !

Life has really been a roller coaster this past few years and I'm sorry, I have been absent and bad at even checking in. I really miss my writing and my hope, is that come Mid Sept, I will be starting again. I will give you a brief rundown of what my life has been, just to help you understand.

Well, as you all know, I was busy planning a wedding and indeed get married. Then all hell broke loose. Apparently I married a very self absorbed spoiled brat, but I didn't see it and things just escalated in a downward Spiral. He made me feel guilty when I wrote, he made me feel guilty when I hung with friends, or if he joined us, then He would leave before we were done, forcing me to. All he did was play his precious Vid games, while I managed everything else and I better not dare disturb that, or would get snapped at, or glared at.

I lost Gidget my old lady Dog in July, and Gadget a year later, in May, acquiring two puppies, one of which was to be his, but alas, he neglected it and so it became mine, along with his Bird.  So have two young, overly energetic pups turning 2 this year.

In Sept 2015, some stupid crazy cow stole my cat, claiming it was hers, and so I went to the police, as I had pics and witnesses. The police could apparently do nothing, and in order to get my cat back, had to take her to court. ( which takes forever apparently )

Come Jan, 2016, my Darling husband, moved in a nightmare of a trollop into MY house, into MY garage, WITHOUT asking me. I came home and she was in MY bed, in MY PJ's, and so essentially, things went downhill FAST there. That nightmare lived with us for 6 weeks, 6 week of hell, of which I lived in terror, she was going to burn my house down ( cannot eve begin to describe, the filthy, disgusting slob of a nightmare she was, she left ovens going, doors wide open in the winter, the bath water running for hours on HOT! Poisened my dogs, the garage stunk so bad, it burned your lungs to enter it. Destroyed my towels, bedding and other things and cause enough of a hydro spike, we were flagged for having a grow op )

She moved out Mar 1, after much fighting with my husband. A week Later, he moved in a cat killing German Sheppard without asking. I pretty much lost it as he had just wasted all the courts time, the lawyers times, cause now I couldn't bring my cat back ( court date was Apr 1 )

Also, it was agreed that I would list my house, Apr 1, and sell it so we could by a house together ( boy, was I stupid ) and thats NOW not happening

Anyhow, I freaked on him a week after that Sheppard moved in, pissing all over my house, and destroying my puppies toys. He packed his bags and moved out while I was at work the next day, told me via text, and I haven't heard from him since. Hes got me on block and ignore, saying I was the unreasonable one. Left all his crap here for me to deal with too cause " he didnt want to "

I have come to realize in the 12 weeks he has been gone, that He was really despicable and nasty and I was Sooo blind to it.  I have so much more peace now, though I would love to smash his head in with a cast iron frying pan !

Now, my listed house did sell in 2 days !!! ( akk ) and so I have to be out July 15th. I will be floating for 17 days with no computer. I move into my New place I bought Aug 3, but will be busy painting, and unpacking and organizing it. Come Last week in Aug, first week Sept, its Faerieworlds, then after that, I have a Friend from Denmark visiting for a week.

Now, thats a LONG post to say I really miss my writing, and I am going to be reevaluating my life, setting myself back on course for me and my pups, and get back to it. ( But Not till Sept !! )

So for any who are still here. I know its been an Age, I thank you, and will look at restarting this fall !!

Hugs, and cheers to all. Hopefully your life was Not as chaotic as mine has been

FD
Isk Sonear
player, 81 posts
Radiant Dragon
Fri 17 Jun 2016
at 04:41
  • msg #73

Re: Absences

Holy crap.

So, no my life is not anywhere near as chaotic as yours, nor do I think anyone's should be.

The one thing that makes me wonder is if you both had homes that you lived in (a presumption about why you would need to merge them) how is it yours is the one that all the chaos got moved into?
Iriosxihuuli
player, 46 posts
Ir ios
xihuuli
Fri 17 Jun 2016
at 07:27
  • msg #74

Re: Absences


 Likewise, all I can say is: Damn! Way to put our troubles in perspective! I can only hope that you find things continuing to improve for you, you certainly have my best wishes.
Faerie Queen
player, 50 posts
Fri 17 Jun 2016
at 14:25
  • msg #75

Re: Absences

Thanks Irio

No Isk, to clarify

I had the house I am in currently before I met my husband. He rented and came into this relationship with nothing but a bed, his clothes, a computer, his desk and chair and a box full of dishes. I asked him for 2 years to save for his share of the down payment, so that we could buy the house together that he was pushing for, cause this house " wasnt his " and yet, after 2 years, his balance was 0.

He wanted me to put the " new " house is HIS name, with MY deposit to get the first time buyers, and I actually stupidly considered that.  ( cause this is my second house, I dont qualify for first time buyers )

I was constantly reminded how it " Wasnt " his house, so why should he help out with it. I should have seen it then. I should have seen it when he admitted a MONTH before our wedding, that he was still Married !!! But I didnt. I tried to be understanding

and so while the pretty wedding was in June, we were not officially married till Sept when the legal divorce papers came through.

anyhow, He is GONE ! I have bought my third and last house, and am moving forward, which once I am in my new place, unpacked and settled, I can write again
Blaze
player, 248 posts
Red Dragon
Sun 19 Jun 2016
at 23:18
  • msg #76

Re: Absences

In reply to Faerie Queen  (msg # 75):

Good luck, sounds like you have been though hell. I have seen mess divorcees but yours is one of the worse. Hope things work out better now.
Faerie Queen
player, 51 posts
Mon 20 Jun 2016
at 16:38
  • msg #77

Re: Absences

Its not been Fun Blaze, not at all, but I a picking up my peices, and moving forward,
and in that, writing again in Sept.

I will probably start all the games fresh, as I dont even recall where we were in half of them
Blaze
player, 249 posts
Red Dragon
Tue 21 Jun 2016
at 01:38
  • msg #78

Re: Absences

In reply to Faerie Queen  (msg # 77):

That's all right. We can see how things work out and what your in the mood for.
Iriosxihuuli
player, 47 posts
Ir ios
xihuuli
Tue 21 Jun 2016
at 06:00
  • msg #79

Re: Absences


 Indeed, let us know if there's much of anything we can contribute.
Storyteller
GM, 349 posts
Writer of Words
Wed 22 Jun 2016
at 01:50
  • msg #80

Re: Absences

grrr

I just got home and the wretched child from upstairs has gone through my packed boxes and stolen a large box of stuff.

I called mom and she admitted to it, stealing my 300 dollar windstone limited edition dragon and replacing it with a rabbit and a " few books "

It was HALF a large box of stuff she stole. I asked her where my crystals were and suddenly she remembered where they were and came down with them.

SO now I wont know whats actually stolen till I UNPACK everything I have packed and put it back where it belongs !!

I just dont get how granting them a favour of storing their stuff in half the garage has given me !
The Undead Lord
NPC, 20 posts
Sun 4 Jun 2017
at 02:43
  • msg #81

Re: Absences

REporting in.
Storyteller
GM, 350 posts
Writer of Words
Mon 25 Dec 2017
at 15:45
  • msg #82

Re: Absences

Happy Holidays everyone
Iriosxihuuli
player, 48 posts
Ir ios
xihuuli
Mon 25 Dec 2017
at 23:02
  • msg #83

Re: Absences


 Indeed, Merry festivities!
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