update -

House went up for sale, three days ago. already had 3 showings so crossing my fingers.

Also, lost my old man last Sat. 10 days shy of his 20th birthday. been a rough week. but we move forward. Hopefully soon, life will get back to normal

*lots of hugs*

We're here for you, my friend.

In reply to Aliana Farwalker (msg # 95):

Aye. hope and god bless.

update - House is on the market, no bites yet, but I will say, I am getting tired of constantly cleaning.

Going to try and get back to my writing as I really miss it, but we do have holidays coming up.

Heading out camping, no computer. for the 1st 10 days of July.

Felix - Will try and get to you this weekend. Ran out of time before work this morning. or , if the puppies wake me at the crack of dawn again, perhaps tomorrow morning before work.
This message was last edited by the player at 15:37, Tue 23 June 2015.

Just repli when you get the time. :)

I'm heading out on a vacation starting on Friday, and going until the middle of August or so.  And I might be very busy with preparations until then.
I might be in reach of a computer every now and then, but I can't be positive I'll be able to post and keep up.
If I get the chance to update, though, I'll give it a try, but I can't promise anything.

In reply to Aliana Farwalker (msg # 99):

Have fun and keep gaming.

Sorry all

I feel really bad, but life right now, is just far to crazy, with having to work full time, then be out of the house for the constant showings, entertaining the two puppys and on top of that, some witch stole my cat, so now am preparing for court on that frount. I havent even had time to hula hoop off my frustrations with my life right now, with all that's happening in it. I want to keep the games but I think they are going on a perma hold until this flipping house sells and I get settled in a new place ( where one of my jobs will move to, so NO driving time and possibly more writing time )

Getting sick off all the " lookie loo's " with NO offers. Gawd, I miss writing so much and I know my aggravation is just growing as the weeks pass, with no spare time, with everything so up in the air and just plain messed up. I have DND, raiding on Wow, and work, pretty much tying up all my evenings now.

Even work is against me.

I used to get off at 2 cause my partner worked, now, shes getting slower and slower, not wanting to be there.  I am doing 3/4 of the work, and we arent getting out till 330 ish. I then have to shower, change, eat and be out the door by 430 for work or 530 for dnd / or work in the evening. Just the other night, on thurs, my bad day of double jobs ( 720 - 330 - 5 - 9) my second job, which I get of at 9 kept me till 1020 Cause things were just too messed up, that they needed fixing. I pretty much lost it that night on the drive home.

I am sorry, I didnt mean to off load here I just wanted you all to know, you are NOT forgotten. Just on hold till I sell my house.
This message was last edited by the player at 05:17, Fri 09 Oct 2015.

We sold a house a few years ago and it was a nightmare.   Please take your time.

Yes, I sold one in 2005 and it wasnt as bad as this one. I have people coming through all the time and now my tenent is saying, if there is anymore showings after the hours of Mon, - Fri 10 am till 1 pm, she is going to give notice. Her hours are unreasonable, but with it for sale, we cant get a new tenent in.

I am just so irritated right now.

Just an update

Hope you all are having a fantastic Holiday month.

Court date for the Cat is Jan 13 2016, though she is denying having my cat. Been heading out there a couple times a week to try and find her, but as she was feral whens he moved into my house, I suspect she has reverted and we arent going to.

Still working two jobs, with longer hours then I like. We brought in a " student " to help at the dog shop, with me having hopes that he could stay, but dog grooming is an art, and we are spending more time babysitting, so its sinking more time then normal.

My one night off has been filled with getting court papers, hunting for my cat, trying to keep my puppies entertained, and ultimately, just veging on the couch, wishing my house would sell so I could downsize hours

I just had to fix my cars Catalytic converter to the tune of very expensive ( 980 for just the part ) and now a rock just broke my windshield. Sigh, but thats not getting fixed till the summer, thats just the way it is.

On a positive note, the puppies are fantastic, though I miss my old dogs too. the German Sheppard from the upstairs tenant, love the pups so she comes down to play most days. I started swimming before work three days a week ( more time gone ) and in Jan have been asked to teach a dance through the ages dance class ( SCA dancers at war with SCA currently, apparently. I have been dreaming of selling my house and moving to the other side of the country where no one can find me, and where I can buy a house outright, and have time again....

Ah well, games still on hold until further notice, and while I would like to say I will try, my busy life doesnt look likes its going to slow until I sell this house. Move to a new one, move the grooming shop into it ( where I will have a computer while waiting for customers to pick up !!! that I can write on ) and no driving time, and then drop my second job, once we look at the budget.

Wishing you all well,and the best holidays !!

Hugs

No worries, my friend.   *hugs*    Real Life comes first, always.   :)


We're here if you ever want to vent.  I know that car troubles are very frustrating, especially when legal and work troubles won't settle down for you.
Good luck!

In reply to Aliana Farwalker (msg # 105):

What she said ^_^

Good luck on the court case!

If you are in NJ, I know a good, cheap windows tech who did my windshield for $250 last year.

Take whatever time you need. Let us know if we can help at all:)

Ok all !

Life has really been a roller coaster this past few years and I'm sorry, I have been absent and bad at even checking in. I really miss my writing and my hope, is that come Mid Sept, I will be starting again. I will give you a brief rundown of what my life has been, just to help you understand.

Well, as you all know, I was busy planning a wedding and indeed get married. Then all hell broke loose. Apparently I married a very self absorbed spoiled brat, but I didn't see it and things just escalated in a downward Spiral. He made me feel guilty when I wrote, he made me feel guilty when I hung with friends, or if he joined us, then He would leave before we were done, forcing me to. All he did was play his precious Vid games, while I managed everything else and I better not dare disturb that, or would get snapped at, or glared at.

I lost Gidget my old lady Dog in July, and Gadget a year later, in May, acquiring two puppies, one of which was to be his, but alas, he neglected it and so it became mine, along with his Bird.  So have two young, overly energetic pups turning 2 this year.

In Sept 2015, some stupid crazy cow stole my cat, claiming it was hers, and so I went to the police, as I had pics and witnesses. The police could apparently do nothing, and in order to get my cat back, had to take her to court. ( which takes forever apparently )

Come Jan, 2016, my Darling husband, moved in a nightmare of a trollop into MY house, into MY garage, WITHOUT asking me. I came home and she was in MY bed, in MY PJ's, and so essentially, things went downhill FAST there. That nightmare lived with us for 6 weeks, 6 week of hell, of which I lived in terror, she was going to burn my house down ( cannot eve begin to describe, the filthy, disgusting slob of a nightmare she was, she left ovens going, doors wide open in the winter, the bath water running for hours on HOT! Poisened my dogs, the garage stunk so bad, it burned your lungs to enter it. Destroyed my towels, bedding and other things and cause enough of a hydro spike, we were flagged for having a grow op )

She moved out Mar 1, after much fighting with my husband. A week Later, he moved in a cat killing German Sheppard without asking. I pretty much lost it as he had just wasted all the courts time, the lawyers times, cause now I couldn't bring my cat back ( court date was Apr 1 )

Also, it was agreed that I would list my house, Apr 1, and sell it so we could by a house together ( boy, was I stupid ) and thats NOW not happening

Anyhow, I freaked on him a week after that Sheppard moved in, pissing all over my house, and destroying my puppies toys. He packed his bags and moved out while I was at work the next day, told me via text, and I haven't heard from him since. Hes got me on block and ignore, saying I was the unreasonable one. Left all his crap here for me to deal with too cause " he didnt want to "

I have come to realize in the 12 weeks he has been gone, that He was really despicable and nasty and I was Sooo blind to it.  I have so much more peace now, though I would love to smash his head in with a cast iron frying pan !

Now, my listed house did sell in 2 days !!! ( akk ) and so I have to be out July 15th. I will be floating for 17 days with no computer. I move into my New place I bought Aug 3, but will be busy painting, and unpacking and organizing it. Come Last week in Aug, first week Sept, its Faerieworlds, then after that, I have a Friend from Denmark visiting for a week.

Now, thats a LONG post to say I really miss my writing, and I am going to be reevaluating my life, setting myself back on course for me and my pups, and get back to it. ( But Not till Sept !! )

So for any who are still here. I know its been an Age, I thank you, and will look at restarting this fall !!

Hugs, and cheers to all. Hopefully your life was Not as chaotic as mine has been

FD

No one should have to suffer through what you endured.  I'm very glad you were able to come out the other side intact.   I know you'll be recovering from it for a while, so please know that we're all here if you need to vent.

*hugs DM tight*

yep, picking up the pieces of myself still, but I think I am getting them all.

Its been a rough joureny, one I dont want to redo

In reply to Dungeon Master (msg # 110):

I don't blame you.  That sounds just awful.    You're such a strong person for being able to walk away from it.

If your thinking about reviving the games you should consider focussing on the one you're most interested in.

yes, some were dorment before I left, some were just one on ones, and I doubt they will continue, but some, like this one were modules, that I can step back into.

That being said, I will look at them, and likely just start a new module pending the level of the characters.

Start fresh ! like I am !!

*smiles*   Whatever you wish to do, we'll be here.

Wow. I would have thought I had been removed from this game long ago. ;_;

Uh, hello everyone. DM, I can't imagine what just happened to you. I simply can't. I hope you're doing much better now.

Of course, I can't say my life's been much better. Sorry for disappearing on you all.

So, a little more than 3 years ago I was involved in a bad traffic accident which left me hospitalized for a few months. I came back from that and everything seemed to be fine - then late 2014 I almost had another accident. Very nearly the same exact type, too.

Well, I lost it. Broke down right in the car, right at that moment. I spent the next several months in a different sort of hospital. Once I got out - well, I couldn't bring myself to come back.

Until today. :/

So, just wanted to give an update - in case anyone was wondering.

Cheers.

*hugs*   I'm so sorry to hear about your troubles, my friend.

The game has been in a bit of limbo, though I still hold out hope.

*hugs* Thanks. :)

Doesn't sound like that hope is in vain - looks like the DM is planning on restarting soon - if everything goes as planned for her.

On Rpol, there's always hope.  :)

I'm glad you're back.