Lesser Worldmaster:
That is OK, Lady Maria. I, above everyone else, must understand delay. :)
About the number of people you can take to the fight. Remember, those who are with you fighting at your side will not be in your lands fighting to protect your lands, and definitely will not be there to support their loved ones in the everyday life of a commoneer.
Remember that not seeing loved ones causes stress and that stress makes people pissed off.
Remember that there are people out there that wants that other people be pissed off with you.
Remember that you will set en example, and noone wants to put too many workforce under your command.
Also keep in mind that if you have few people with you, things will be more difficult for you.
Yea, Offhand I'm thinking about 10-20% of my forces. Elliana's advantage is small keeps are never expected to give many men so even fielding 5 men is exceptional for her. As it literally is 1/8th of her entire keep and population, heh.