katisara:
I'm sorry. You had written a lot about this in the Grail thread, then about families in the LDs thread, so I had made an assumption there.
It is my personal belief based on the evidence and the LDS beliefs, and I think many share that belief.
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I am aware that most LDS people are called to go on at least one mission.
Actually, I was referring to being called as an apostle. For missions, young men are urged to go on a mission at the age of 19...obviously, while single...and young women, if they want to and are unmarried, when they are 21. Couples can go on missions later in life when their children are grown.
A few are called to apostle or similar positions while still with a young family, but it is like any other job. They devote time to that and time to their family. Mother Teresa certainly could have done what she did with a family...assuming an intact home with mother and father. :) Besides, the best time to do this is after the kids are grown. Most people aren't spawning into their old age.
But to say you can't do what Christ said with a family is to state that the family is not the number one obligation and blessing a person can have. I believe it is.
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It seems to me that he didn't!! Rather, he called EACH of us to follow him, to bear our own crosses.
But I'm talking about full out, drop everything, quit your job type of following him. That's what an apostle does, not a disciple.
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If Jesus only wanted 12 people, why didn't he say "that's alright, Bob. You're doing enough. Bury your dad and pray ten hail Mary's and you're good." But he didn't! He said come follow me right this instant. Put away your life and follow. Presumably, the man did not.
Please give me the cite so I have a reference. I think there is more to this than you have put down.
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I am not sure how Jesus would plan how to 'work out' being tortured and killed with his wife. I just can't imagine discussions in that arena turning out anything really productive. "Sweetie, I can't do the dishes on Friday, I'm getting crucified. It's on the calendar, remember?" But this really breaks away from my original point.
I don't think he would pass up marriage and a family just because he would die, particularly if he was setting an example for us. I know someday I will die, probably before my wife, yet I still chose to marry her. Jesus could have been married for close to 20 years before he was killed. That's plenty of time to have a happy family and prepare them for what's coming.
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But again, Jesus said it is easier for a camel to pass through the eye of a needle than for a rich man to enter heaven.
Although this is a Jewish exaggeration, said to make you think, not take too literally, I heard about a gate called the "eye of the needle" in Jesus' day, where you had to unpack your bags before going through. So in other words, it would mean that you had to unburden yourself of earthly riches before entering into the kingdom of God. Nothing to really do with just having wealth or being poor.