Tycho:
Also, what do you think of the situation where the jews were ordered to take the young girl prisoners "as your own" after killing all the other prisoners (including women and male children)? That sounds pretty close to what you mention here. Is it just that it's not made explicit what they were meant to do with these young girls? do you expect they were going to bake them cakes and take them to the zoo? What do you think they were supposed to these children they were told to "take as your own"?
Trust in the Lord:
I think it's different due to culture, and what God had intended for the rest of history/the world to learn about.
When you say "different due to culture" are you saying it was okay for them to do it? Do you approve of what they did? Do you find it right or just? I would tend to view killing of captive women and children, and then taking young girls "as their own" to be a pretty evil act. Would you agree with that?
Tycho:
Hmm, I thought "it's an abomination" implied that God thought it was wrong, rather than just an arbitrary rule for one group of people at one time.
Trust in the Lord:
The cultural laws were there to distinguish the jews from the rest of the world. They would stand out from the world.
So calling something "an abomination" doesn't actually mean it's bad? It just means "don't do it so you can stand out from the rest of the world?"
Tycho:
That's what you've said when the word was used for homosexuality, if I recall correctly.
Trust in the Lord:
Not sure what you mean here.
In the past when the bible's view of homosexuality has been discussed here, some people have made the argument that the OT ban on homosexuality was a law just for the jews of that time, to make them stand out from the world, but not meant for everyone at all times. If I recall correctly, you pointed out that since it was described as "an abomination" that mean it really was wrong, not just a rule for one group of people at one time. Am I misremembering here? Does calling something an abomination not actually mean that it's always wrong for everyone everywhere, in your view?
Tycho:
But rolling with what you say here, how does the idea that God had a "chosen people" in the OT square with the idea that Jesus came to save everyone in the NT? Seems like another contradiction to me. God being the God of the jews in the OT, and being the God of everyone in the NT. Granted, I think the switch was a good one, but if the one thing you're looking for is consistency, it seems like it should raise some flags, no?
Trust in the Lord:
It doesn't to me. The jews were there as an example for and of the law. But the fulfillment of the law through Jesus means that no one has to be under the law, but rather are saved through Grace.
That doesn't sound like a change to you? It sounds like a change to me. A good change, granted, but surely different, right? It would seem to me that "you are my chosen people. You (and only you) can be saved by following my law" is very different from "anyone and everyone can be saved by my grace, even though they haven't followed my law". Can we agree that those are two pretty different systems?
Tycho:
-God saying "thou shalt not kill," then ordering the slaughter of women and children after a battle.
Trust in the Lord:
It would be murder that is wrong, not killing.
Tycho:
Slaughtering helpless women and children that you've captured doesn't count as "murder" to in your view?
Trust in the Lord:
I was distinguishing what it says, but the logic I presented still stands.
Not sure which logic you're referring to here (there's been a lot of stuff in the back and forth). Can you just make it explicit for me:
Was slaughtering captive women and children "murder" in your view?
Trust in the Lord:
What difference does it make if God says it's time for you to die through a car accident, a justice official with death penalty, in war that He commands, or a disease? He's God. When it's your time, it's your time.
Well, the difference is that one requires someone to do something evil, the other doesn't. If God could kill you with a disease, but instead asks some guy with a sword to run you through, it seems to imply He gets something out of having the guy stab you. What would that be? Why bring in the extra person, other than because He enjoys having people kill for Him? Now, does the person who dies particularly care how God goes about killing him? Perhaps not, but the person doing the killing surely should care, right?
Tycho:
Do you think that people who follow other gods are probably in the same boat?
Trust in the Lord:
No. They'd be following idols, and demons.
Yes, of course. But they don't realize that, right? They're convinced they're following the right god, right? You're sure they're wrong, and that's great for you, but it doesn't help them any, because they think you're the one following an idol or demon or false god, or whatever, right? They're just as convinced that their god is the right one as you are that yours is right, correct? In that sense, you're all "in the same boat" in that you're all convinced 100% that the god you're each following is the right one. Each is able to look at the more unpleasant things that their god is said to have done, and think "well, there must be some good reason for it that I just can't see, since my god wouldn't do anything less than perfect." Can you agree that regardless of who's correct, everyone following a god, and feeling the same sense of trust in their god that you feel in yours, will be convinced that their god is correct, and will always approve of their god's actions because their god "knows best" in their view?
Tycho:
Is there any reason they should convert to your religion, if they use the same reasoning as you? I mean, if they consider their god to be consistent with his own word, and trust that any less-than-savoury acts their god is said to have committed must have some good reasoning behind them, and their god tells them not to have any other gods, what could change (or more to the point, should change) their minds and make them follow God?
Trust in the Lord:
Well, if they want to really have God, they'd need to convert.
Yes, but why would they want to have (your) God, if they're convinced that their god is the right one? They would say the same of you, right? That if you really wanted to have (their god), you'd need to convert. But you don't care, because you don't want to have their god, you're happy with your own. And they would feel the same, right? That they don't want your God, their happy with their own. Would you agree that that is likely to be the case?
Tycho:
That would sort of make me nervous in that position--that if people who disagree with me use my own line of reasoning to back up their beliefs, they'll never be able to change their minds and see what I consider to be true. Does that not worry you at all?
Trust in the Lord:
All the time. I think of how many people may not hear the Word of God.
Heh! :) But it doesn't concern you at all, that the
reason they might not hear the word of God, is that they feel the same way about their religion as you do about yours? Or, put another way, that you won't hear the word of (any other god) for the same reason that they won't hear the word of your God?
Tycho:
Put another way, there are people you consider to be wrong about their religion. And if they use your reasoning, they won't be able to see that they're wrong. That seems to indicate, doesn't it, that if you happen to be wrong, then you won't be able to see that you're wrong.
Trust in the Lord:
They aren't using my reasoning.
Hmm, perhaps this would be clearer with an example. Imagine some guy who's following an evil god. We'll call this god "BadGuy". He's an unpleasant god who's just out for himself. But he's moderately clever, so he knows that he needs to pretend to be a good god, otherwise no one will follow him. So BadGuy writes a book about himself (or has some lackey do it for him, probably), saying how great he is, and how kind, and how virtuous, and how he's going to shower rewards on all the people who follow him. And because he doesn't like competition (especially not from gods who really are good!), he puts in his book that all the other gods are tricksters and demons and idols, that no one, under any circumstances should even consider following. BadGuy does his best to make himself sound nice, but he is evil afterall, so he can't help but slip in a few stories about how he ordered murders and killings and blood sacrifices, and the like. But he has his lackey write "but BadGuy had very good reasons for all this, which you will understand when you get to hangout with him in the afterlife."
And like I said, there's someone who's decided to follow this BadGuy. Let's call him Trust in the BadGuy, or TitBG for short. He's following an evil god, but is convinced that BadGuy is perfect, and good. It says so in the book, so how could it not be true? You and I are a bit worried about TitBG, since he's following this evil god. I want him to just ditch BadGuy, and you want him to convert to Christianity. So we approach him and try to show him that BadGuy isn't the kind of deity he should really want to be associated with. I say, "look at the things BadGuy is said to have done! He's ordered murder, killings, wars, human sacrifices! Is that really the kind of god you want to follow?! Doesn't that seem a bit evil to you?" But TitBG says "evil in whose eyes? Who are we to judge a perfect being? BadGuy knows better than us. Sure, there are I things I would do differently, but I'm just an imperfect human. BadGuy is perfect and all knowing, so obviously has a very good reason for all these things he's done." You say, "But TitBG, don't you want to follow the real God? Don't you want to have a relationship with a loving, forgiving, just God? Don't you want to go to heaven when you die, rather than hell?" And TitBG says "Ha! Your 'God' is just an idol or a demon! You're in rebellion against the true god, BadGuy! You're the one who's going to end up with an unpleasant afterlife, not me!"
We scratch our heads a bit, then you think to try comparing holy books. You say "TitBG, look at the bible! It's the best selling book ever! It's full of prophecy and truth! It changes lives!" And he just replies "but scientists don't agree with your book, so it's not even true. And the prophecies haven't been realized. Besides, what does best selling have to do with it? Does BadGuy need to do what you want in order to exist? Does BadGuy need to write a best selling novel to exist? BadGuy doesn't write whats popular, he writes what's true! It even says in the book of BadGuy that people will try to smear his name, and now you've just proved it! And as for changing lives, my life has changed since I started following BadGuy, too. I'm a completely different person!" (and this last bit we have to grant, since he's been much more of jerk since he converted to BadGuyism).
And this can go on, and on, but we don't seem to have any chance of changing his mind, because he's sure that BadGuy is perfect, and all the other gods are demons and idols. The only way we'll be able to get him out of this evil religion is if he's willing to question it himself. He can't escape BadGuyism unless he's willing to question the idea that BadGuy is perfect. If he always justifies BadGuy's evil acts by thinking "well, I'm sure there's a good reason for it, since BadGuy knows best," then he'll never realize he's following an evil god. And he'll feel just as strongly that he's right as you do that you're right. He'll think all the same things about you that you do about him. He'll trust BadGuy just as much as you trust God, and for the exact same reason: he thinks that his god is Perfect. He'll mistrust your God just as much as you mistrust BadGuy, and for the same reason: he thinks all other gods are demons, imposters, and idols. When you point out flaws in the book of BadGuy, he'll come up with some explanation ("scientists don't know what they're talking about", "that part was a metaphor", "it was different due to culture", etc.) that convinces him that all is fine, and it has to be that way, since the book is written by a perfect being.
How does TitBG break out? How does he escape the trap he's got himself into? You might be tempted to think "he needs to accept God's love!" or something like that, but imagine things from his position. Accepting God's love would look the same to him as accepting BadGuy's love would to you. It's antithetical to what he believes to be good and right. You might say "he needs to look at the bible, and see the truth in it!" but think of things from his point of view. Reading the bible would look to him, like reading the book of BadGuy would to you. He'd view it as temptation by a demon, and only see the flaws. And just like you think there are no flaws in the bible, TitBG would be convinced there are no flaws in the book of BadGuy. He's stuck. Well and truly stuck. The only way out is for him to question it. To ask himself "What if BadGuy really isn't perfect?" To ask "what if the people pointing out flaws in BadGuyism actually have a point?" Because if he doesn't start questioning, he's never going to see the flaws and is never going to get out.
But part of the problem is that he doesn't
want to get out, and so views anything that makes getting out more likely as very bad. Questioning is bad, for that very reason. People who try to make him question his beliefs are evil, because they're trying to lead him away from what he is sure is the truth. He's not interested in being converted, or hearing about how he's wrong. He's interested only in winning converts to BadGuy, and showing others the errors of their ways.
Now here's my point of view on all this: TitBG is just a human being. He's made a human mistake, and ended up following the wrong deity. He trusted his own judgement, made a bad call, and now is stuck. This could happen to any of us. We could all be TitBG. You, me, katisara, any of us, could be walking the wrong path right now. In fact, most of us are on the wrong path, since whatever the right religion is (or lack of religion), most people aren't following it. That means its more likely than not we're wrong about what we believe! So what should we do? How do we avoid being TitBG? It's not to be sure that we're right. TitBG is sure he's right. It's not to "be sure and pick the right god", because TitBG is sure he's picked the right god. The key is to accept that you could be wrong, and look for evidence of it, and be willing to question your beliefs. That's the only thing that will get TitBG out of his trap. Confidence and certainty aren't our friends in this, they're the things that keep us stuck where we are. Its not asking "how can I convince people I'm right," its asking "how will I know if I'm wrong?"
I feel like your view is that you don't have to worry about being wrong, since you're right. You've got a view similar to TitBG's, I would say. You don't feel you have to wonder "what if God isn't as great as He says He is?" because you're sure He is perfect, just like TitBG is sure that BadGuy is perfect. When people point out acts killing, murder, etc., to you, you say "well, God must have a good reason for that, He is perfect, afterall," just like TitBG does for BadGuy. You don't have anyway of knowing that you're not actually in TitBG's shoes. You're sure you're not, you're completely 100% convinced that you're not, you laugh at the very idea of it. But TitBG was just as sure and just as convinced. You're maybe thinking "I've put my faith in God, the one and only true God, so I'm just not worried about being wrong," but TitBG thought the exact same thing about BadGuy. Being confident, being sure, putting your faith in what you consider to be a perfect deity, none of these things guarantee that you're right. All they actually do is make it impossible to see when you're wrong. That's what I'm getting at. That's why I mean when I say "they're using the same reasoning as you." Does that make sense?