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Neither a sperm nor an egg is an indepdendent creature, they are not a new individual, nor will they, on their own, develop into anything. They deserve no special protection, no more so than a mole or a fingernail does.
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A sperm does not qualify as a living animal, however a fetus does meet those requirements.
It does? I would have to say that Tycho brings up a good point. An embryo/fetus is hardly an independant creature. If it was, this wouldn't be much of a problem. The problem is in fact that a fetus does depend on it's mother, and is entirely dependant on her, as in, can't exist without her continual support.
Does a fetus qualify as an animal? How? Prove it. Again, at the early stages, I would find that rather difficult to support that a sperm and egg isn't, but a microscopic embryo is. The same things that would disqualify them is still present within the earlier, and even middle, stages of development.
Beyond that, if we assume that's true (a big if), proving that it's an animal isn't sufficient enough to make your case. People kill animals all the time, for survival, for consumption, for market reasons, for enjoyment, and yes, for convenience. None of them are called murders. Proving that an embryo/fetus is an animal isn't enough. You have to prove that it's a person. And that would, again, be a difficult case to make without referencing that it's a future person, in which the same argument could be made for the sperm and the egg: that denying them, or doing anything to prevent them from meeting is, in fact, depriving a future person of life. Hence, the use of contraception would also be murder, by the same reasoning.
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While I do recognize we two seem to agree that late-term abortion should be avoided, I don't know that everyone here has accepted it. Simultaneously, the point is it's a continuum. Is protecting a fetus in the third trimester sufficient? Why not the second? And if the second, why not the first? Again, it comes down to where to draw the line.
So, you admit that you're arguing against a point I'm not making? And where do you draw the line? From what I've heard, it seems that the moment of conception seem to be the line for you, simply because, despite your statements that they are different, you have in fact treated first term abortions exactly the same as third term abortions.
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The question is whether the fetus right now is human, even if that human is composed solely of stem cells. Or more accurately, if it is proto-human, somewhere on that continuum. I don't think anyone here would say a sperm is a proto-human.
Why not? Why can't sperm or eggs be a proto-human? They are a most vital and important step in the creation of humans. Without sperm or eggs, no embryo can come to be. In that sense, how is sperm or eggs any less part of the development cycle of a human?
None of the things you've stated in response to Tycho would in fac, qualify someone for being human. If a creature simply had 23 chromosome pairs, would that be sufficient, or, for that matter, some people are born with less than 23 pairs of chromosome. Are they not human? Most creatures have a gender that aren't human as well, and beyond that, one can certainly make the argument that sperm has a gender, given that it has some that carry and X chromosome, and some that carry a Y chromosome, which determine the gender of people in the development cycle.
When a sperm meets certain requirements, they will in fact grow. This doesn't work, naturally, if you say they are growing into larger sperm, but it does if you say they grow as living beings, as they will grow into a human, if certain conditions are met, much like a fetus will, if certain conditions are met. After all, fetuses don't grow into larger fetuses. They grow into a human baby. A fetus can't reproduce either, but they can, granted they survive to adolesence. But, looking sperm as proto-humans, I'd say the same thing could be said about them. In fact, I'd say such an argument only helps the idea that sperm aren't their own creature, but simply proto-humans in it's earliest form.
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I won't debate that I'm using the murder of a child as my measuring stick, but what else would you recommend, if our goal is to determine if abortion is wrong? After all, what we are all concerned about is whether or not abortion is murder. I assume that's why you oppose third trimester abortions, that you think it's akin to murder. I'm simply saying, again, if third trimester abortion is considered murder (or close to murder), why not second trimester? What is the difference between Tuesday and Wednesday when approaching this issue?
That's a difficult question to answer, but people have made their own conclusions. You, for example, have yet to fully prove that first trimester abortions are exactly the same as third trimester abortions, but you argue it anyways.
This is a very complex issue, and one that doesn't always give consistent answers. Perhaps that's the difference between your argument and mine. I think this is a very personal and complex issue that has heavy ties with one's religion and beliefs in this world, so this is an issue for the individual to sort out. You, on the other hand, believe that, because it's a complex issue, that even the most libral of interpretations should be treated as true, just in case, so no one should have an abortion. Both are legitimate methods.
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1) I don't believe punishment is meant to be retributive. It's meant to be correctional, to protect society and to dissuade people from crime. Society is safe from these people. I think sufficient community service should serve as sufficient dissuasion. Jail isn't every effective at correcting behavior anyway, so that's not a huge issue.
2) I don't believe abortion (or I should say, I'm not arguing abortion) is equivalent to murder, but that it's in the same vein. It's like comparing stealing $100 to robbing a bank. Also, I can't think of a lot of situations where the person requesting the abortion isn't under extreme duress, which is a complicating factor. Someone who gets serial abortions would be a different matter, however.
I disagree. I think someone who's thinking about abortion is thinking about things heavier than what community service can provide a dissuasion for. Appearently, you make the argument that, between 50 hours of voulenteer work and a lifetime committment, the community service is the heavier of the two.
In fact, I would argue that all making it illegal really does is take away the safe and sterile way of doing it. Instead, those under enough duress, as you put it, to have an abortion will have to seek it through much more dangerous means. Illegal abortions, or self performed abortions, are already committed in the thousands each year, and that's with abortion legal. I can't imagine the number that would do so if it were made illegal, and the safe way taken out. There are plenty of horror stories about what happens when people try it themselves, which not only results in an abortion, but plenty of times, the maiming or death of the mother. By contrast, what's the benefit of having such a law in place? Less abortions are had, more teenage mothers or mothers who otherwise are incapable of taking a child are made, more children up for adoption. I would argue that the benefits of such a law wouldn't outweigh the costs by a longshot.
Your last point also seems to be contrary to your first point in this statement. How is a "serial abortionist" a threat to society?
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If we're talking about a woman who cares little enough about the child to get an abortion, who therefore will presumably put the child up for adoption, won't be needing much maternity leave. Birth requires generally 4 days leave, c-sections require up to 2 weeks (4 for physically strenuous work). There's no time needed for bonding with the baby.
.....OBJECTION!!
That's a completely and utterly offensive statement. Those that wanted to have have an abortion care little for the child or will care little for the child? Have you ever been around a woman who's had an abortion before, or was thinking of having one before deciding to keep it?
Here's a mindblowing reality for you: contemplating aborting a child doesn't make for a parent who won't love the child, or is callous is a completely baseless assumption in an attempt to demonize the women who choose it. I have met plenty of women who have had abortions who love their children dearly, and ones that were too late to have an abortion who love the child all the same.
Case and point, I myself, was almost aborted, but my mother has loved me dearly from the moment I was born. We have a great relationship, maybe even closer than most, and I bare no resentment for her for thinking about never having me when she was younger. Case the second, my brother, again in a the same situation, my mother was even at the abortion clinic but decided against it last moment. And she loves him just as much as she loves any of us. Case the third, my sister was in fact, planning to have an abortion, but was only stopped by situational matters, simply put, she was past the point where any clinic would take her without a medical reason. She was even planning on giving it to my mother, but after the child was born, she refused to give it up, and she absolutely adores her daughter.
Simply because one might be intending to have an abortion doesn't make one a careless parent who doesn't even want the child, or care about the child. These are issues far more complex than you're making them out to be. One of the reasons the adoption option rarely pans out is because, after having the child, the parents tend to change their minds. There's some kind of natural instinct that tends to make one want to keep and care for the child after delivering it, and giving a child up for adoption, just like considering abortion, is one of the toughest things that any mother or father reportedly can do, even if they intended to do so from the beginning.
You speak of offensive statements, but did you ever consider that perhaps someone in this forum might have had an abortion? You say you'd never say such things to one who did, but how do you know I didn't have one? I've never told you if I have or haven't.
Moving on, don't you think a couple of weeks is a rediculously short period of time? I think that's what companies would like you to believe. I have a difficult time imagining a pregnant worker who's late in term is actually as focused on her work than one who is not, and I think they really should be. And I would imagine it takes longer than just a couple of weeks to properly bond with a child. This is why other nations have a much lengthier period of maternity leave.
And you assume that most people who would have an abortion wouldn't keep the child, and I would disagree with that notion. I think they would. Assuming, of course, that making it illegal does in fact prevent abortion in many cases. You keep making those that would have an abortion out to be these careless mothers who couldn't possibly be thinking about keeping the child or are too callous to think of taking care of it, when I think that would be the minority of cases. And I really do think it's a cheap shot.
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No, I'm saying a pregnant woman is someone who has a medical condition resulting from her lifestyle. If my lifestyle includes biking, getting hit by a car is also a medical condition resulting from my choice of lifestyles. Yes, junkies also suffer medical conditions from their choice of lifestyles. However, saying they're related beyond that point is a false comparison.
And the lifestyle choice is...being female? You have a very broad stroke in determining what a lifestyle is. Appearently, living is a lifestyle, and thus just stepping out of your house, you should be well aware of the possibility that you will be hit with a baseball bat just stepping out. I would disagree with the idea that getting hit by a car is the natural consequence of biking, just as I disagree that getting pregnant is the natural consequence of being female.
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Should the baby pay? Unfortunately, that's what it comes down to. SOMEONE is paying, quite dearly. So yes, the question is who.
Again, you make the assumption that the embryo is a person, without you ever proving the point. I think that argument, once again comes down to the sperm and egg. If a woman doesn't want to get pregnant, and a man doesn't want to impregnate, than it's the sperm and egg who have to suffer the fate of not ever becoming a person, due to the "selfish" actions of their parents to use contraception.
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Quite to the contrary, I think he needs to help support her. You're absolutely right, he also contributed to the situation. I don't know much about child support laws, but they seem like they could use a little work.
Forgive me for being bold, but I think your'e failing to see the whole picture here. It's not just time and money that's lost in this case. It's worry, it's fear, it's stress, natural consequences of having a kid. And, beyond that, it's a disruption of a career that's entirely one sided.
If a woman were to keep the child, as I think they most likely would, given the option of abortion is thrown out, there's emotional involment as well. She does have to split her concerns between a child and her career, and both are likely to have equal times, if not more scued towards the child. That is costly to someone who's trying to work their way up the ladder. And, honestly, corperations know this. If they know an employee really is worried about keeping their job, and is willing to accept their pay as is to keep it, they'll do it. It only makes business sense, and the parent needs to keep a stead income.
By contrast, what's a parent with only child support lost? Just money, if he so chooses. He can still dedicate as much time as he wants to his career, and doesn't have to split this up between other obligations besides the necesities, and is free to work their way up the ladder and be as ambitious as they want. It's the unimpeded ability to progress that a parent, especially a single one, tends to lose.
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That said, you also bring up another interesting point. If I get my wife pregnant, right now I have little legal say as to whether she can abort the fetus or not. Isn't it my kid too?
This is an interesting point, and it's one that's contested more and more all the time. Does a man have a right to decide if an abortion is going to take place, one way or the other? There's a small, but growing, movement of "mens rights" in this area.
I do agree it's a valid point, and one that is unfair, in the woman's favor this time. I do think that, for equality to exist, there are some things women have to give up too, not just men. For example, in the courts, the mother is much more often awarded primary custody of children, almost entirely based on the idea that she's a woman. I agree that is something that we need to give up, and the basis shoudn't really take gender into the equation.
However, this is one area where, even though the opposing has a very valid and indesputable point, that I feel we have little way to make fair. Because, ultimately, she does have the burden of carrying the child, and likely, caring for it. This is not something he can just take from her.
A friend of mine (who is, oddly, very much a partiarch, don't ask how we get along so well) once argued to me that a man who wants to have a child should have the right to prevent the mother carrying his child from having an abortion. In return, he has to pay for the various expenses and compensate her (he's, of course, assuming the two weren't living together). However, what determind proper compensation for something like that. Can you put a price on a uterus, or being a mother? Ultimately, it's just one area that I don't think we have a proper way to deal with.
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What I'm saying is there are specialists much better paid than I who have made the case that there are a good number of children who have not been born specifically resulting from the legalization of abortion. So yes, I suspect legalizing it would significantly increase how often it happens.
There are specialists better paid than I who have made the case that the moon landing was fake and that Area 51 exists too, though I suppose that's beside the point.
I don't feel that's a very strong point. Specifically, yes, when abortion was made legal, there probably was more abortions had. a good deal. However, now that it's part of our regular way of life, would making it illegal result in a similar decrease? I would say no. I'd say the situations are very different between a country that's never had abortions before, and a country that's had abortions legal for half a century before making it illegal again. Much like prohibition simply made illegal brewries more popular, I think illegalizing abortion would only make more dangerous methods of abortion more prevalent.
That isn't to say that I don't think making it illegal would decrease the number of abortions at all. I think it would. But I doubt very much that this would be the significant result you're looking for. We have legalized abortion in every state, yet lots of women, most commonly very young and adolescent women, seek illegal abortions anyways, if simply to hide this fact from their family and friends. I would imagine then that making abortions illegal wouldn't stop these women anyways, and actually increase in number, as now illegal abortion becomes the only option.
Ya know, for a person who's just trying to decide whether or not abortion is ethical, you certainly have made the case for simply one side. It sounds to me like you've already decided whether or not abortion is ethical, well well before any of us made our case.