Hmm, seems like there are still sticking points here. It still feels like you don't want to answer some of my questions, GMC. Could I ask that when I ask a straight forward question, you just answer it? Definitely give your other thoughts as well, I'm not asking you to
only give the answer. But for a lot of these I feel like I say "what in that box there?" and you say "in this cuppord? Well let me tell you..." and I say "no, no, not the cupboard, the box. That one right there <point>". And you go "ah, yes the refridgerator. Inside the fridge is..." "no, not the fridge the BOX! That one right there!" "Oh, yes, this handbag then, let me tell you about it..." You're giving me lots of information that you really want me to have, but you just don't seem to want to give me the information I'm asking for in a lot of cases. So it'd be awesome if you could do both. Cool?
Okay, on to those points I raised:
1. "expand your definition to include them"--what does this actually mean?
Do I need to change the way I speak, or not? Right now I call a certain group "christian," but you're telling me I "need to expand my definition" to include a bunch of other people. Does that means if I say "christians" I now have to
intend to indicate those other people as well? If so, how do I refer to that first group that I called christians? Do I need to agree that these new folks are christians, or just keep my disagreement silent? What does "expanding my definition" actually entail? What change do I need to make? I feel like I'm getting conflicting messages from you on this, in that on the one hand you tell me I need to accept these people as christians even if I believe they're not, while on the other you tell me no one can force me to change my beliefs. So I'm confused. Do I need to believe that someone who says "I'm christian" really is, or can no one force me to believe that? Am I allowed to not believe it, but just required to pretend like I do in order to not offend them? Some clarification of what I'm actually changing is needed. Is it my beliefs that need to change, just the words I use, or something else?
2. Do most christians share a core set of beliefs, even if they disagree about lots of other things?
--You've claimed it's impossible to show "that even the majority of people agree on anything," which I think I could do. If I do, would you change your view? What fraction of Christians do I need to demonstrate believe something before you would view it as acceptable to consider that a shared belief? Or, alternatively, what fraction of people need to disagree with the majority in order to cause us to say there is "no agreement at all?"
--You've also indicated that I can refer to the "whole lot" as christians, when I asked about people who believe that Jesus is the son of God, died for sins, etc. But I just want to clarify: if I mean
only those people who believe that stuff, is it okay to use the term "christians"? Because you're telling me some people don't believe those core things should still be called christians, and I'm not sure if I'm "required" to mean those guys as well whenever I use the term.
3. Why use a definition that has zero information content, when a competing definition has non-zero information content?
--First, I completely reject your assertions that "knife" and "car" have no information content. When you use each term, I instantly get an image in my mind of an example of each. Perhaps not the exact version you want me to have, but if you need me to think of a specific example of each, you just need to be more specific. Often that's not necessary. For many cases, a generic "knife" or "car" is sufficient for the purposes of the conversation, and then those words serve a very useful purpose. Critically, in both cases, there are large classes of things which pretty much everyone who speaks english can agree are "Not knives" and "not cars." If you hold up a fork and say "is this a knife?" then pretty much anyone who speaks english will be able to answer that "no". Likewise with cars. If you point to sky scraper and say "is that a car?" Pretty much all english speakers will be to to tell you that it's not. These words mean something. If they didn't, they probably wouldn't be part of our language. So if your position rests on the assumption that words like this mean nothing, then you've just failed to convince me.
--You also haven't really addressed the key question here. There are two competing definitions of the word "christianity" in this discussion. Yours, and what you keep saying is mine (though I claim no ownership of it). Yours, by your own admission, has zero information content, and tells us nothing about the beliefs of those to whom it is applied. The other has non-zero information content, and indicates something about the beliefs of those to whom it is applied. You're telling me that we should favor the zero-information definition and stop using the non-zero information definition. To me that seems pointless. What does doing this actually buy us? Why intentionally prefer a definition which is meaningless? If we get a choice on which to use (and it seems we must, otherwise you wouldn't be trying to convince me to use yours), why not pick the one that has some meaning? I stress here that I understand that you believe the word means nothing at all (under your definition), so there is no need to re-iterate that. I get that part; it's clear. I don't know why you think that makes your definition better than the dictionary definition, though. Can you explain what the benefit is of doing it your way? What do we get by tossing out the definition that seems to be far more useful, and adopting one that seems designed to be useless?
4. Using the fraction of people who understand a definition as a measure of the quality of that definition.
--You keep saying that if no one has "facts or evidence" to back up their opinion, then no one's opinion is superior. But the whole point of this measure of quality is to provide facts and evidence to figure out whose opinion is superior. So "you don't have facts or evidence to back you up!" doesn't work here. The question you need to address is "now that I have some facts and evidence to back me up, do you still refuse to accept my view?"
--It might be useful to at least make it explicit that you do consider it the case that sometimes one person's opinion is superior to another's. For example, you're putting a lot of effort into trying to get me to accept your view here. Do you consider your opinion on the meaning (or lack there of) of "christian" superior to mine? If not, is there any reason I should change my ways to adopt to yours? Do you have some facts or evidence to support your position that I should consider? If so, why do you feel that particular set of facts and evidence is more important than the one that I've suggested (ie, the fraction of people who understand a given definition)? [note, it'd be really, really useful if you'd answer the question about whether your opinion on the definition of christianity is superior to mine, because if you really don't feel that it is, that will save us a lot of extra discussion]
5. There is a difference between telling someone their beliefs are wrong, and telling them that the terms they use to describe their beliefs mean something different.
--You say that "What's well-known, and well-understood, depends on where you live and who you live with," and I whole-heartedly agree. What can be "taken as understood" changes radically from audience to audience, and certainly a speaker needs to take this into account. If you're talking to a group of all-mormons, you'll be able to qo pretty quickly over mormon doctrine and be understood, but if you're in a room full of Catholics, you'll need to go into more detail about Mormon beliefs if you want them to understand you. Sounds like we're on the same page there, at least.
--You also haven't addressed the issue at all. You've focussed entirely on whether we can tell them their beliefs are true or not. While I happen to think it's entirely justified to tell people their religious beliefs aren't true (at least in certain contexts, like a religious discussion board), in this particular discussion that's not what we're talking about at all. You need to realize there is a difference between disagreeing about someone's word-choice, and disagreeing with their beliefs. If you don't see the difference, you need to say so, because that indicates you're really entirely missing what I'm talking about. It has NOTHING to do with knowing their feelings better than they do, or knowing if their beliefs are true, or anything like that. If you keep bringing up examples like that, you're not addressing my point, which will just waste more of our time, since you'll type out something that doesn't address my point, and I'll have to type out a response asking the same thing over again.
--You also accuse me of "assuming privilege," to which I can only remind you that I am not a christian. The only benefit I get from having the word defined like most people understand it is the ability to communicate with others about the topic. Please keep in mind you've made some pretty harsh accusations of me, of katisara, and by implication everyone who believes that Christianity has something to do with Jesus. You've called us all bigots, and implied that we're all hateful people trying to crush those who disagree with us. You got a bit offended when I pointed out that your comment about India could cause offense, and told me I was looking for offense where none was intended. You don't like it when people imply that you view Indians as inferior, and we don't like it when you imply that we view non-christians as inferior (and in case you forgot it already TYCHO IS NOT A CHRISTIAN!). So please don't do that, okay? Zero people are calling anyone inferior here. It is possible to disagree with someone without viewing them as inferior. Can we agree on that, and agree to play nice from here out?
6. Do people need to justify their beliefs if they want me to change my life to accommodate them, or do I need to accept everything anyone claims as true without question?
--You say that demanding everyone justify their beliefs is rude. But how else am I going to have any idea what their beliefs are? You use the example of a trans person. If you have a beard, but identify as a woman, that's your business and I don't have any strong objections to it. But if you want me to treat you like a woman (e.g., use female pronouns for you) you're going to have to let me know that you identify as a woman. I'm not a mind reader. I tend to instantly consider people with beards to be men. Sometimes I may end up being wrong because of that, but it saves me hours of my life asking every single person "Do you identify as a man or a woman or as neither?" In order for me to change (ie, to say "her" instead of "him") they need to let me know that they would like me to do so. Further, I need to be convinced that they're not juts taking the piss. With most trans people (and most religious people as well), I'll usually just take them at their word. But if I have reason to doubt their word (such as having over heard their frat-boy plan to get cheap shots at ladies night), I might voice my scepticism, or simply refuse to believe them until they give me more evidence. It's good to be open-minded. It's just gullible to automatically accept everything anyone tells you.
--You asked what I would do if you asked me to justify my gender identity to you. The answer there is that I really am not too fussed which gender you think I am. If you think I'm a woman or a man, it doesn't really matter much to me. I'm not asking you to treat me like one or the other really, so I'm not going to expend much effort on it. I'm willing to say "I'm a man" if you ask, but if you don't believe me, I'll shrug and not lose any sleep over it. I definitely wouldn't be offended if you asked me my gender, and would be happy to answer. If you asked
why I identified as a man, depending on the context, I would either be happy to start a discussion of it, or just say "I just do" and leave it at that. If it were in a context, such as this, where discussing tricky issues wasn't weird, I'd be happy to consider the question a bit, give a list of reasons and thoughts about it, and have a potentially lengthy conversation about gender identity. If you were just some schmoe I ran into at the pub that I didn't know, I'd probably figure you were looking to pick a fight, so I'd shrug and walk off. You see, it depends heavily on whether or not I care what you think of me. If I do, I realize I need to be willing to put some effort into changing your mind, especially if I'm doing something most people haven't seen before (speaking more here about religion now, but I suppose this probably works for trans-people too; in a city most people probably know someone trans, and it's less of a big deal, but in a very small rural community, its quite possible many people never had met a trans person. So a trans person moving to a small rural community would likely have to expect to do a bit more uncomfortable explaining to folks, at least if they care about what others are thinking, which they might not. It's not "fair," but it is reality). The basic idea is this: If I want you to change, I have to put a bit of effort into that. Might just be as simple as letting you know I want you to change, or it might take more convincing. But if I'm the one that wants something, I'm the one that needs to be willing to do something to get it. And if you're the one that can cause the change I'm looking for, it's towards you that I need to exert the effort. Finally, the more unusual the change I'm asking you to make, the more likely it is that I'll need to put more effort into it, and do more to convince you.
--Another example you give is "If you used the n-word a lot, should I have make a special case for you to stop?" To which I reply "if you don't make a case, no one will stop using the N-word." It's not a question of whether you 'should have to,' but rather the case that you simply do have to if you want someone to change. No racist is going to become non-racist if you pretend to agree with everything they say for fear of offending them. If you want to change the world, you're going to have to risk offending people sometimes. If you want racism to go away, you're going to have to be willing to tell a racist they're wrong. And it's entirely possible some racists will be offended when you do so. That's just how the world is, I'm afraid.
7. What constitutes consensus?
I feel like I asked a fairly simple question but you didn't really give a straight answer. You say "consensus isn't disagreeing on interpretation," but how much "disagreeing" can we tolerate in a consensus position? Does absolutely everyone need to agree? Or just a very large majority? Put another way, can you point at anything where you think consensus exists? The reality of climate change, perhaps? Evolution? The earth being 4.5 billion years old? Vaccines not causing autism? All of these are things where I'd say there is consensus, in the science community at least, but where there are small, vocal groups who disagree. Do we say "well, the creationists don't agree with our interpretation, so I guess we don't have consensus, and their opinion counts just as much as ours"? Do we say "Jenny McCarthy thinks vaccines cause autism, so I guess we don't have consensus, and it would be unfair of us to say our opinion is superior to hers"? No, we don't say that. We accept that there will always be a small bit of disagreement in everything. But we also accept that you don't have to convince absolutely everyone to have good agreement. If you agree with that, I'm asking you for a rough estimate of how many folks saying "keep your Jesus out of my Christianity!" we can tolerate before we have to make everyone change their definition to include them. 1%? 5% 10%? Or, if it's easier for you, just tell me how many such people you think there are? How big is this "Jesus-free christians" movement?
--You seem to feel that my position that the vast majority of christians consider christianity to have something to do with Jesus to be "just my opinion," and "based on anecdote." You seem to doubt that even a simple majority of christians believe that Jesus was the son of God, died for sins, etc. Maybe this is the problem. It sounds like you have no idea of how big various religious groups are, and so assume that I don't have any idea either. You say you haven't studied the position of the majority, and so seem to assume that no one else here could have done. But let's just look at the numbers to get a feel for the kind of numbers we're talking about here. If we can trust
wiki, then about 32.5% of the world identifies as "christian," and 18% of the world identifies as catholic. So already, if we can say that "catholics" believe something, we've already got the majority of christians. This
other wiki link breaks it down a bit further. It says we have about 1.2 billion catholics, 600-800 million protestants, 225-300 million eastern orthodox, 86 million Oriental orthodox, 85 million Anglicans, 44 million restoration, 10 million chinese oriented churches, .6 million church of the east, and .6 million unitarians.
So if catholics, protestants, orthodox, and anglican churchs agree on something (that Jesus is the son of God, say), that's about 1.8 billion or more people right there. Which is nearly a quarter of the whole world. How big are the other groups that we might consider? Mormons? 15 million or so world-wide, which is about .8% of that 1.8 billion from before. And the Mormons also share those views about Jesus, and are a fairly large group. So whatever other groups you're talking about, each are going to be far less than a percent of the total, and even all added together, they're not going to be a huge fraction. You mentioned Christian scientists (who still consider Jesus to be part of their theology, by the way), but they have about 400,000 members world wide, which is about .02% of 1.8 billion. So do you feel that the .02% disagreeing with the 99.98% is enough disagreement to mean we don't have consensus? How much disagreement can your "consensus" tolerate?