katisara:
I'm curious, how many Catholics do you know?
Most of my father's side of the family are Catholic.
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For an individual to be married in the church while the first spouse is still alive requires an annulment from the bishop, and that in turn requires proof that the marriage was never valid in the first place. Annulments are not easy to get.
Can a divorced and remarried person go into a church and receive communion? Most likely, even though it's a mortal sin to do so. They are considered to be in an ongoing state of sin as long as they are living with their spouse (which implies they're having sex, in this case, adultery). they cannot get married in the church, they cannot be baptized, they cannot receive anything else which requires formal recognition of being in good standing.
Some of that is "don't ask, don't tell". I know plenty of people who have committed "mortal sins" who are practicing Catholics, and don't face any issues. One girl I knew in high school had an abortion, although I believe she didn't announce it. My father was nondenominational, but his third wife insisted in a Catholic wedding, and they had no problems. (Yes, her previous husband and both of his previous wives are still alive.) Knowing him, he probably glossed over those details, but I'd imagine the priest didn't push too hard either.
I do know that when I've gone to Mass with my Catholic relatives, they offered me communion right alongside everyone else, even though I've probably committed eight of the seven deadly sins. :P Taking it probably kicks me up to nine, although the first few times I was rather young. So, I rather suspect it's not a big deal.
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In 2035 if a thirty-something man walked into a church and all the neighbors know he shares his apartment with another thirty-something man, would he be allowed to stay? I really do hope that is the case. Will he be able to receive communion? I don't know. Will that man be able to pursue a homosexual marriage in the church or get baptized? I can't imagine.
I suspect it'll be tolerated, at the very least. There's growing trends towards tolerance now; if someone wanted to rent the gym at the Catholic high school for Queer Prom, I don't think anyone would really object. In the long run, I think eventually homosexuals will be able to "rent" the cathedral for their weddings, and there will be tactic acceptance in practice, even while there are objections on the books.