V_V
 member, 939 posts
 Resting. I hope to find
 peace and vigor return.
Mon 3 May 2021
at 07:20
Skin in the Game
Look at D&D! Wait...I'm thinking...
Piestar
 member, 893 posts
 once upon a time...
 ...there was a little pie
Mon 3 May 2021
at 07:33
Constantly the victim lol
In reply to V_V (msg # 1819):

Funny how people don't seem to grasp the basic numbers behind D&D. I remember a debate I was having with a guy over what you should be able to accomplish with a natural twenty. He wanted the result to be miraculous. I suggested that miracles shouldn't happen, five percent of the time. He clearly had never connected a natural 20 with 5%.
I always like the idea that special results should come from extended rolls, and second natural twenty, or some such, for a special result.
Sir Swindle
 member, 314 posts
Mon 3 May 2021
at 11:45
Re: Constantly the victim lol
Piestar:
In reply to praguepride (msg # 1816):

You never played rolemaster I am guessing. The difference between 84% and 83% could be significant! I loved that rule set, but could find no one willing to play it. Sad.

I put a 5% tolerance on all absolutes. no one (-+5%) cares about 1% and 1% never (-+5%) matters. Also the universe is empty (-+5%) and no portion (-+5%) of the earths population lives in Nebraska.
Ski-Bird
 subscriber, 168 posts
Mon 3 May 2021
at 12:23
Skin in the Game


^^ This reminds me of when I had to learn about statistics, chi squares and margins of error.  Up until that point, I thought I was fair-to-middling at math.  It just about broke my brain.
V_V
 member, 940 posts
 Resting. I hope to find
 peace and vigor return.
Mon 3 May 2021
at 13:56
Re: Constantly the victim lol
In reply to Sir Swindle (msg # 1823):

*Literally smh* *sigh*
Ski-Bird
 subscriber, 169 posts
Mon 3 May 2021
at 14:11
Cultural issues
Zag24:
One good aspect of the system was that there was no damage roll.


Hot mess aside, I think the idea of fixed damage multiplied by how well you hit is pretty neat.  Easily scalable too (as in the dragon example).
Sir Swindle
 member, 315 posts
Mon 3 May 2021
at 14:12
Re: Constantly the victim lol
V_V:
In reply to Sir Swindle (msg # 1823):

*Literally smh* *sigh*

Hang with too many pedants.

Me: "All crows are black."
Jerks: "Well actually albino crows exist."
Me: "STFU you know that all means all -+5%! Now give me all the chips.
Jerks: "Can..."
Me: "YES YOU CAN HAVE A FEW!"
V_V
 member, 941 posts
 Resting. I hope to find
 peace and vigor return.
Mon 3 May 2021
at 15:00
Re: Constantly the victim lol
Gotcha. So you've never (-+5%) played rolemaster. Neither have I.

This message was lightly edited by the user at 15:01, Mon 03 May.

PCO.Spvnky
 member, 470 posts
Mon 3 May 2021
at 15:03
Re: Skin in the Game
Ski-Bird:


^^ This reminds me of when I had to learn about statistics, chi squares and margins of error.  Up until that point, I thought I was fair-to-middling at math.  It just about broke my brain.

Stats is magic with numbers, lol.
praguepride
 member, 1807 posts
 "Hugs for the Hugs God!"
 - Warhammer Fluffy-K
Tue 4 May 2021
at 21:02
Re: Constantly the victim lol
V_V:
In reply to praguepride (msg # 1816):

Don't go to a casino. ;)


1% makes a difference over large numbers but even in a heavy combat session we're probably not even rolling dice 100 times so 2-4 hours a week/100 rolls a week just doesn't see that volume.

I read somewhere that for people who count cards and grind things out as professional gamblers usually end up making about minimum wage on average. You might get some hot or cold streaks but in general with $5,000 in your bankroll and a 1% edge minus expenses/tips/taxes etc.

In theory pure optimal at $5,000 an hour at 1% edge you should average $50/hr but you cannot play for 24 hours a day nonstop perfectly. Eventually you start making mistakes, have to take a break, need to eat, use the restroom etc. which all cuts into your grind time. Dealers have to swap out, slow/drunk players will sit down and screw the flow up etc.

The "Harvard Card Counting Team" didn't make great returns but what people don't realize is they collected funds like an IC and raised nearly $100,000 to gamble with so that 1% return was much much higher for them and even still they ended up only hitting about $162/hr which means that 1% edge translated into only 0.2% profits.

uhhhh...what were we talking about?
SunRuanEr
 subscriber, 388 posts
Wed 5 May 2021
at 00:47
Argh
Dear child of mine that just excitedly shared a picture of your engagement ring:

"It's very pretty" is the best I can do, sorry. I pray you won't regret this, but I fear you will, because right now you're not remembering one bit how many times in the past six months you've sat at my kitchen table/stood in my driveway and contemplated kicking your SO out of your shared housing situation because living with them drives you nuts. If you don't want to live with them now because of their obnoxious habits, you're not going to want to live with them five years from now, either. If they've not improved over the previous three years you've been dating, they aren't going to improve one bit once they no longer have to do much of anything to keep you around.

...and let's not even get into the way you feel about their family. That won't get any better with time, either. I speak from experience, here.

/headdesks

Deep down, I know this is a terrible idea, for about a thousand reasons - but I feel like I have no recourse but to cross my fingers and hope it's not the utter dumpster fire that I just know it's going to be. If I even remotely try to point out reasons to wait on this decision, it's just going to push them to make it faster.
Piestar
 member, 894 posts
 once upon a time...
 ...there was a little pie
Wed 5 May 2021
at 02:53
Argh
In reply to SunRuanEr (msg # 1831):

Wow, that is sad. The myth that a bad relationship will magically become a good one with a ring and a ceremony has caused so much pain over the years.
phoenix9lives
 member, 1064 posts
 GENE POLICE!  YOU!
 GET OUTTA THE POOL!
Wed 5 May 2021
at 03:32
Cultural issues
Take it from a guy who is on his third marriage, even the best relationships require a lot of work and compromise.
GreenTongue
 member, 970 posts
 Game Archaeologist
Wed 5 May 2021
at 13:50
Argh
In reply to SunRuanEr (msg # 1831):

Sadly, train wrecks have to be experienced personally.
I on the other hand. am in what was basically an arranged marriage.
Like roses, there are thorns but, this year will be the 36th.

Maybe it will be like a "Near Death Experience" and transform them both. (Odds are against it but it happens.)
OceanLake
 supporter, 1157 posts
Wed 5 May 2021
at 18:47
Argh
A "something" that just struck me: When contemplating marriage, consider how well you like the bread in the relationship, not the cake.
Jewwk of Shuu
 member, 42 posts
 "I cast: Pro: Sandwich"
 GM: "But WHY?!"
Wed 5 May 2021
at 21:15
Argh
Marriage is like the Lockhorns.

If you're not Leroy and your wife isn't Loretta (or vice versa) then you're in the wrong comic strip. :|
Rockwolf66
 member, 71 posts
Sun 9 May 2021
at 01:45
Family
It turns out that I have Two Half-Sisters. One of them just made first contact through Ancestry.

So I already knew that our father was a liar and a cheat. So now he has more Karmic debt that he will never repay in this lifetime. He left a woman without a family as her Bio Mother wanted nothing to do with her.

I have yet to meet her in person but she has family now if she wants them.
Piestar
 member, 895 posts
 once upon a time...
 ...there was a little pie
Sun 9 May 2021
at 05:58
Family
In reply to Rockwolf66 (msg # 1837):

That's neat, did you already know the first one?

I was contacted by a half-brother years ago. My mother was from the generation where her parents pretty much forced her to put the child up for adoption. Luckily he seemed to have had a good life. Sadly he didn't contact us until years after our mother had passed, but I converted all out home movies from 8mm to VCR for him.
Rockwolf66
 member, 72 posts
Sun 9 May 2021
at 19:13
Re: Family
Piestar:
In reply to Rockwolf66 (msg # 1837):

That's neat, did you already know the first one?

I was contacted by a half-brother years ago. My mother was from the generation where her parents pretty much forced her to put the child up for adoption. Luckily he seemed to have had a good life. Sadly he didn't contact us until years after our mother had passed, but I converted all out home movies from 8mm to VCR for him.

Yeah I knew of and get along great with the first Half-Sister. Dad was married three times and was not faithful to any of his wives. We suspected that there are more siblings out there. We now have proof.

Well She wanted more family than her kids so she's getting one now. She's survived a 3 hour conversation with out Mutual half sister. They seem to be getting along like a house on fire.
Piestar
 member, 902 posts
 once upon a time...
 ...there was a little pie
Sun 23 May 2021
at 23:57
Re: Family
Not sure where this vent is aimed, but it is frustrating sometime to be roleplaying a character, and getting no sense that anyone reads your stuff. I try to work things other people do and say into my posts, but it is rare to find someone who seems to even notice, much less reciprocate.
GreenTongue
 member, 973 posts
 Game Archaeologist
Mon 24 May 2021
at 17:34
Re: Family
In reply to Piestar (msg # 1840):

Lot's of "snap posts" to make an update sounds like.

It's frustrating to me that people don't refresh themselves on what has come before just "post for the moment".

"I'm bartering with the shopkeeper."
"I raise my mug in toast to the table."
Just because the active play is at the tavern doesn't mean you jumped there to cut into the conversation.
Isida KepTukari
 member, 380 posts
 Elegant! Arrogant! Smart!
Sat 29 May 2021
at 08:31
Re: Family
It's been a hell of a week.  Car incurred a repair worth more than it was, so traded the car for a newer one last Friday.  Worked butt off on Monday night painting floor lines and safety barriers because of a CEO tour at the factory.  That Tuesday afternoon, Husband took our 18-year-old cat Timmy to the vet because he'd been a little sick for the past few days.  They called at 3 to say it might be serious and they needed to do an ultrasound.  Called back at 5 to say that our beloved cat was beyond help.  We had to put him down, though at least we got a chance to see him, pet him, kiss him, and tell him we love him.  We were both sobbing basket cases, and I called off work because there was no way that 1.) I was going to be able to pay attention to anything and 2.) Husband and I needed to be together to support each other.

That night, we both realized that our house was intolerably quiet and empty without a feline presence.  And Timmy had been such a boon to both of us.  That next morning we went to a shelter and adopted two cats.  Those two have been a tremendous help with the loss, and we're really glad to welcome them into our house.

But holy heck, could we slow down the ride for a while, life?!
Piestar
 member, 904 posts
 once upon a time...
 ...there was a little pie
Sat 29 May 2021
at 17:12
Re: Family
An old peeve, made new again here recently.

It stems back to when I was a DM in the Army, and we were getting ready to game, when one Michael Ramos vanished on us. We found out later he had decided to go to a movie, mere minutes before the game started.

His response (I wont call it am excuse, as he felt there was nothing wrong with his actions) was that 'it was just a game'.

And while it is just a game, when people flake like that, it is the people they play with they are disrespecting, not the game. It is the commitment to the people not that game, that is the issue.

Grump, grump...

Anyway.
ladysharlyne
 subscriber, 3098 posts
 Member before Oct 2005
 THE GLASS IS HALF FULL
Sat 29 May 2021
at 22:25
Constantly the victim lol
Age-old problem here, there, everywhere and one of my biggest pet peeves too but nothing you can do but delete, delete, delete.  I mean if someone leaves the game hanging like you said, then it is disrespect to not only you but all the players like you said.  If a player lets me know they need to be gone but are coming back that is fine.  It is the flakes that join, don't post but maybe a post or two then just disappear, when players are in a game they should at least be courteous.  I am gone often from my own games but I let my players know it is my illness that takes me away, or other things but they always know I will be back.  This is caring and common courtesy, Is that so hard for someone to do!  I agree completely with you Piestar.

Before it is said, I DO know that there are cases that something has happened to that player either health wise or computer wise but in the latter there are phones, libraries, friend's computer, contact to let you know something is going on is available.
Piestar
 member, 905 posts
 once upon a time...
 ...there was a little pie
Sun 30 May 2021
at 08:51
Constantly the victim lol
In reply to ladysharlyne (msg # 1844):

Real life is certainly outside of the bounds of this peeve. It does bug me when real life interferes with my plans, but I am mad at life, not the person. This peeve is specifically people who blow off the game for trivial reasons.