Re: ~ OOC Discussion Round 2 ~
In reply to Gwen Meredith Howard (msg #8):
Amen, sister.
I'm in the position where I deal with both entitled students and their entitled parents. Last year I had a parent threaten bodily harm to me because I would not force her struggling daughter to come to help sessions.
After we dealt with the whole violence tissue, here's how the slightly saner conversation evolved.
Me: But I gave your daughter written instructions to set up an extra help session with me.
Parent: Well, she doesn't want to appear like that kid who needs extra help.
Me: But she does need extra help.
Parent: But she is afraid of the stigma.
Me: So why have you not insisted that she set up an appointment time?
Parent: Well, we don't want to be pushy parents.
Me: So, what you're saying is, compared with the other options, you're OK with failure.
That pretty much ended the conversation. Thankfully, I have a department head who has my back. :)
PS: The girl in question scheduled a help session the next day.
PPS: Luckily, most of my job involves working with bright, motivated students.