Rules of Conduct
The following are guidelines for what to expect from disruptive play:
Intra-party physical attack: Personally, I take the view that no player can kill another without that other player's permission.
Abusive - Unacceptable publicly or privately. One warning in expectations at game outset (THIS IS THAT WARNING), one warning in game, and then the player is gone.
Provocative - I've seen this in two flavors. There's provocative in character, which is fine as long as the player is not so obnoxious that nobody wants to game with them (at which point it becomes Abusive). Then, there's provocative out of character, typically to get one or more characters to react. Most often, I've seen this second type from an active player surrounded by players who are either inactive or fail to post meaningfully. Typically, I council that player to simply have fun, post normally, and let me (the GM) manage player participation.
Pace - This is a situation where a particularly active player posts so promptly and comprehensively that other players never feel empowered to take lead. I handle this from two directions: 1) I Private Message (PM) the prompt player asking that they slow just a bit so that other characters can participate, 2) I PM the characters who are not responding quickly and ask them to indicate their focus based on their personal motivations. Conversations and actions, especially in this medium, do not necessarily have to be linear. It's OK to have three people all asking questions and having one longer response to address all of these. I also mix in action-oriented sequences/combat that levels the participation (i.e., you must get through a round of combat for everyone before progressing). For combat, I typically put the round of combat in the message title (e.g., Hobgoblin Attack Round 1).
Alignment - While we are not formally playing alignment, please no play that is completely misaligned with party harmony. Adult themes are acceptable. If it's too extreme or you have concerns about whether it's beyond the bounds of acceptable, send it to the GM in a PM.