Heads up
My thanks. It'd been some time since I could have a proper conversation with her, so it was a gradual loss, but there's still a sort of gap in my world where someone once existed and now does not.
On a related, darkly amusing note, my aunt's only just managed to fix the beaurocratic screwup that meant that technically, my long-dead grandfather was supposed to come into the office to sign the paperwork for the opening and addition of my grandmother to his grave plot...I tell you, they would be sorry if he did.