OOC # 31
:;chuckles::... when my Son's house burned down 2 years ago, he,,his GF( who became his 2nd wife) moved in here with all thier animals and stayed for about 8 months... I have a big house, both sides of a 'company house' that was made into one big house.
I saw warning signs from the wife-to-be. She drank wine heavy ( i warned her about that)... she seemed to think my son and kids were 'locked in' because they needed her.
My Son, poor guy, did what he could to work through issues..( very poor house keeping, you add way too many animals, witht he kids almost being slave labor. Then end came when she was 'goign out with work friends' and posting about a couple Old BFs on FB. there was another couple with them, but i figured that was the 'witnesses'..my Son caught her on the phone trying to talk the brother of an Old BF to leave his GF for her!..and some of the things she said about my Son was the last straw.
Now?... the 3 kids, My son and the parakeet are here... we continued the traditons of Egg dye, we'll have easter dinner and family egg hunt with oldest daugther's family here..The kids seem way happier, and my son seems less stressed.
as i right this, my other grandaughter stayed over night, so? I have lots of kids here, but they are all happy and relaxed.
the Moral of the story, I suppose, is having each other's back... my son is 0 for 2, with getting drunk/cheaters as wives...but?.. like spring brings the new fresh year... this is something that will get better as they move on.
Had to write this... as many folks call me and text me about stuff...this seems the best place for me to vent a bit!