Waves a warm welcome greeting to Feydra. :>
<grins> One of my favourite RPG quotes is from Shamus Young, which might be pertinent to our current discussion:
Sure, it can be bad when you realize that one of your players has been zoning out during crucial moments. But, the real horror sets in when the players who have been paying attention try to explain, and their perception of your gameworld is so different from your intention that you almost don’t recognize it as your own.
Peck isn't a people person - not that he doesn't try, he's just not good at people. You can't take them apart to find out what makes them work. Well you
can, but everybody tends to frown at that sort of thing.
And like Yona's player, I'm unfamiliar with Earthdawn in all its forms, but more than willing to give 4th a go (hey, it can't be as awful as D&D 4th and with any luck it doesn't have either sticks or whips on the equipment list).