Onyx:
Did not notice the held action at the top of the order.
Also forgot that you don't have to expend a held action before taking your next phase. I think in my mind you have to use a held action before your next phase -- even though the rules do not have that requirement.
When Backlash made the attack, I figured that meant he had no held action.
So, at one point does he have to use that held action. Onyx attacked him. If he had rolled more damage, could Backlash have decided to absorb it instead of take the hit?
Or did he have to decide to absorb before the damage was rolled?
I don't believe there is any sequence in which you need to use your held actions (will have to look when I get a chance) other than needing to use it by the end of the turn or it goes *poof*.
For your other question it is much easier to look at in a tabletop situation because you have to make a decision in the moment where in PbP unless the person states "I am attacking so and so" you don't know what is being done and therefore the absorption can appear retroactive. Technically he would need to choose to absorb your attack before the damage is rolled but as people tend to do attacks and damage in the same post that is hard to do.
Now, the Soviet team *does* have intel on your team (as you have intel on *some* of them) and from their observations of Poco's ferocity and general accuracy he is the larger threat over Onyx (Poco averages 21 damage vs. Onyx's 13 damage per hit). Therefore Backlash took the chance on letting your attack hit him (even if you had rolled higher damage).