Tycho:
Yes, wants only affect our choices, but are not the choice themselves, which is sort of my point. I feel your statement implies that I want something that I don't actually want, rather than implying that something I don't want will be the result of my choice. When you say "Tycho chooses not to be with God" it implies "Tycho wants to not be with God." It implies that in the same way that "criminals choose to go to prison" implies criminals want to go to prison and that "God chooses for people to murder" implies that God wants people to murder. What I object to is not you saying I have a choice, but rather the fact that you're implying that I want not to be with God.
Trust in the Lord:
I do not feel that is implied. I really don't see the majority of criminals wanting to go to jail for example.
Yes, we both agree criminals don't want to go to jail. Would you say it's accurate to say "criminals choose to go to jail" then? [this is a real question]
Trust in the Lord:
At some point you are going to have to recognize that If you choose to be with God, then hell is not an issue, which is what I said, and stand by. If you feel that you are choosing to be with God, then I state hell is not an issue.
Tycho:
Well, in that case, I apologize for all the hassle. I seem to have misunderstood you. I thought you were saying that non-christians are choosing not to be with God. If you can accept that those who choose not to follow God aren't necessarily choosing not to be with Him, then I misunderstood you, and for that I apologize.
Trust in the Lord:
Been there, done that, disagreed already.
Hmm. So you're not saying people can choose not to follow God, without choosing not to be with Him? Perhaps I wasn't misunderstanding you then.
Let's try this:
Have you ever been on a trip with someone, perhaps in a car, and gotten lost? Have you ever been in one of those situations, where you both are looking at the map, saying "I think we need to go this way to get there!" and "No, I think we need to go this other way to get there!" You're both trying to get to the same place, but you disagree on the route that will get you there. Has that ever happenned to you? If it has, have it ever happened that you tried one way, and it turned out to be the wrong way? You were trying to get to one one town, and ended up in another? Most people have, so hopefully even if you haven't, its not too hard to imagine. Imagine being in that situation. You and your wife, say, are trying to get to Dallas, but you've taken a wrong turn somewhere, and ended up Houston. You're both a bit frustrated. Your wife is especially frustrated, because you decided to go the way you thought would get to Houston, and it's turned out to be wrong. Now, in that situation, would you say it's accurate for her to say that you chose to come to Houston instead of Dallas? Is that really what you chose, or was it just an unwanted result of what you did choose (which road to take)? [these are real questions, an answer would be much appreciated]
Here's another (hopefully it will add some levity):
Imagine you die, and go up to heaven, and St. Peter is standing outside the pearly gates waiting for you (imagine it as a cartoon, it makes it more amusing). St. Peter smile at you and says "Welcome to heaven, TitL! We've been waiting for you! Unfortunately, I can't just let you in. You have to pass a little test first. But since you've been such a great guy, I'm going to help you out. Now, I've got one coin in my left hand, and one in my right. One of them says "heaven" on it, the other says "hell." You have to pick a hand, and if you get the one that says "heaven" then in you go, eternal paradise, hanging out with the JC, just what you're after. If you get the one that says hell, well, you know where that will get you. He holds out his fists, and says, "all you have to do is pick a hand." He glances over his shoulder, then whispers, "And just between you and me, if you want to get into heaven, you should pick the right hand." He gives you a wink and a smile, and holds out his fists waiting for you to pick one. Since you really want to get into heaven, you point to the right hand and say "Heaven here I come! Show me that hand there!" Peter smiles and opens his hand, and then his face goes red. You look down, and in the hand you picked is a coin that says "hell" on it. St. Peter stammers for a second, "I...I...I really thought it was in this hand! Oh man, do I feel like an ass. Really sorry about that, TitL. I really am. Wow, what a screw up I am. But, rules are rules, I'm afraid. Down you go." He pulls a lever, a trap door opens, and you fall down into a big pot next to bugs bunny in a devil costume. Now, in that case, would you say that you chose to go to hell? Or was hell an unintended consequence of your decision? [these are real questions]
Okay, that's it. Just a few very very easy questions to answer. Please really answer them, TitL. They're not tricks, they're just meant to illustrate a point. I'm hoping we agree on the answers to all of them, and that that will give us a building point on making some progress in this discussion.