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Nobody's children have a choice in the matter, though. That's nothing special about these kids.
Heath:
I see what you're saying, but it's not her specifically I'm talking about. She's a very prominent and exaggerated display of what is going on all over America. It's what she stands for that I'm really talking about, and all the kids across the country in similar situations.
Okay, what is it that you feel she stands for? And what is the situation that "all the kids across the country" are in? I don't think having too many kids is really all that common these days, so I'm not entirely sure what you're meaning here.
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I might think people who indoctrinate their kids with religion from an early age are harming my innocent fellow citizens, but I don't feel I have any right to stop them from doing it.
Heath:
First, that would be opinion, and not a reasonably sufficient harm in any case.
Which is sort of my point.
Heath:
This woman, for example, already had one of her kids walk off and get lost for hours because she wasn't watching,
A kid outside of parental supervision for
hours?! The horror! ;) I thought it was liberals who were supposed to be the overprotective ones, and conservatives who wished for the days when we felt comfortable to let the kids run in the streets for 10 hours a day. ;)
Heath:
and now she has 8 more. In any case, she's being investigated by CPS, so that should tell you something. And they certainly aren't any better off for being poor, on welfare, with no father and 13 siblings...hard to argue against that, I think.
True, they'd probably be better off if she was rich. But so would most kids that don't have rich parents. And yes, 13 kids seems like way too many, but to me, 4 seems like too many. I don't feel it's my business to tell octomom how many kids to have than it is my business to tell you or katisara how many kids to have. While I can agree that I don't think she's making good choices, again, it's less my business than other bad choices being made, and I think the problems that will result from them will be less than other bad choices.
Heath:
I quickly looked up welfare costs. I didn't find the latest stats, just up to 1995, but over 20% of our gross domestic product was spent on social welfare programs. That was over $1.5 trillion in 1995 and is probably much higher now.
So:
Cost for the war: about $12 billion per month
Cost for welfare programs: well over $125 billion per month
So it is not fair to use the cost of the war as the concern. If money is your concern, welfare programs cost 10 times as much as the war each month, so under the standard you stated, you should be much more concerned about the welfare programs.
That reasoning is a bit tenuous. I should be more angry at octomom because she's making up a minute fraction of the social welfare costs, and social wellfare costs are large? Even though you tell me she's costing $100k a month, I should be upset at her for wellfare costing $125B? That doesn't work for me. I'm actually in favor of much of the social welfare spending. Medicare/Medicaid? I actually think those are pretty good things. Not perfect, not by a long shot, but I'm in favor of spending money on them. Health insurance for children? Again, I'm for it, even if it's not perfect. Octomom isn't the reason the bills are so large. She's a rather unique case, I would argue. I'm not worried that there's going to be a new fad of having 8 babies at a time all of a sudden.
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Compared to other places my tax dollars are going, this is neither that big, nor that offensive.
Heath:
Hmmm....see my comment above. Not big???
Again, you stated octomom was costing us $100k month. Compared to those other numbers, I still think that's not very big. And that money is going to aid those kids, which I think is a decent thing to spend money on. Did the mom do something stupid? Yes, I would say so, but I don't want to punish those kids to spite her for it.