katisara:
I don't think that's an unfair assessment. I'd argue that morality is based on relationships (for religious people, that includes relationships with God). An individual with no relationships has no need of morality. Because society is nothing but a web of relationships (and war is the intentional destruction of those relationships) it would make sense that a 'universal morality' applies "only" to socialized people, and perhaps does not apply to war-time.
I wonder then if it's more helpful to think of it as a universal culture that has many shared cultural norms, and to just leave morality out of it completely.
Particularly since the morality of those cultures seems to change based on certain factors, but at least among most cultres there is a shared shift in the morality when circumstances change (such as wartime).