Re: OOC 3: The Next Chapter.
Ulrich, sorry for getting your name wrong again in the previous post.
Kullonar, I know you're not human. Your god IS, though. Cuthbert and Pelor are both human gods, and given that Bruno and Moradin have been present since the beginning of the group does it surprise anyone that he might note that his god has been 'Othered' by Ulrich's statement? (Were I not playing a cleric I think I would've ignored it, but it just seemed to juicy not to rp a response.) ;)
Seer, I read your words here before going to the IC thread and I think it pushes me in the direction of something I'm sorry I didn't say earlier:
I don't think WE are, or have, intended to split the party up to this point. Rather YOUR reading of our posts have split the party.
That is, in THIS case, the only posts prior to the one I just left IC (#220) has the PCs that posted so far following Myrrick.
Perhaps more importantly, when we got into trouble in the room/scene BEFORE, my intention/understanding of what we were doing was 'fanning' out -- moving from 2 x 2 to a wider group in front with a smaller (Bruno, et al) behind in support, and moving into a seemingly large and very dark room that would required us to move in close proximity to each other whatever our marching order for light. (In a post before describing us each group being in a different location you seemed to understand and even support, if one wants to read the tone as such, our actions.)
I understand why you decided that we were splitting given the nature of the room's geography, but nobody put into their posts that they were streaming willy-nilly into a profoundly dark room not paying attention to where everyone else was.
In other words, you could have read what we were putting down as our moving into the room within the compass of our light sources (i.e., so that we could actually see each other as well as obstacles) and described that because of our formation we were losing track of each other and given us an opportunity to regroup before winding up so far apart.
But you didn't. You described us as having broken up into groups without paying attention to each other and winding up a great distance from each other.
So, it might be argued that we didn't break up the party. You did.
And I get it. I know that I've misread posts and gotten annoyed or frustrated or taken an action that with hindsight I might've done differently. Or maybe you thought we'd read the situation and respond differently. Not only is it easy to misread or miscommunicate things here, but it's easy to get impatient. I know I do and I have probably contributed to yours and others' impatience as well, mea culpa!
Another thing that has occurred to me several times recently is that almost everything that has gone wrongly or was misunderstood by me, and much of what I've seen from you and every other player would have never have happened if were playing in real time either at the same table or via Skype, etc. When each of us comes to the game we're taking an often quick break from dealing with whatever else is going on RL and unlike a face-to-face session we've got no time to decompress, get into character, and dive into the scene.
Seems to me the break we'll have while you're away will help everyone. I'm happy to keep playing as I've enjoyed the game since the beginning and I appreciate and admire the effort you make here and the rp from everyone else.
But if you're not having fun running this. I'd be okay with stopping. For that matter, if you think that my action/lack of action/something else is a problem, I'd be willing to drop if that helps the game continue, because I don't want to diminish anyone else's fun.
No hard feelings and, like I said, much appreciation for you and everyone else in the game!