Shawn's Childhood Act II: Passage of Time
Question #3
Shawn's feelings about his parents are really complicated, probably to the point where he's not even sure how to describe it. He still loves both of them - or at the very least he still craves their approval, which is basically the same to him - but they clearly both want something completely different out of him and he doesn't know how to make them both happy.
He hates it when they fight, because on some level he believes it's his fault. After all, he's kind of fuelling the flames; when he's with his Dad he's pretending that he's more into sports than acting, and when he's with his Mom he's pretending he likes acting more than sports, and from his perspective that's most of what they argue about. But at the same time, deep down he resents their fighting too. Shawn puts so much effort into keeping up appearances and pretending to enjoy things when he doesn't, and it seems unfair that Mom and Dad can just openly argue and don't feel obligated to put on a brave face like he does.
He doesn't really have a parent he overwhelmingly favours over the other. If he absolutely had to choose one or the other, he'd probably eventually settle on his Mom over his Dad. He doesn't really have an interest in sports or that other stuff Dad's trying to teach him, and despite trying not to think about it, he's worried that his Dad might've hit his Mom, and that means he might hit Shawn too.
As for his home life...he liked having Bobby and Ralph around, though there's obvious issues there. His birthday party was a lot of fun as well, though he didn't get to enjoy it as much as he might've wanted to because of the looming threat of Bradford. And of course, despite everything, he does like it when he makes his parents happy; every time they praise him for something he did, it makes him feel a bit better about himself. If only temporarily.