"Read First".
OK, first, the pace:
Out of combat I do updates on Monday, Wednesday, and Friday. If you've given me something to work with (or even have just been posting in a discussion with each other regularly), fine. If not: I'll either give you another chance to post something or send in a random encounter you really won't want, depending on my mood, and how often it's come up.
If Monday is a Holiday in the U.S., DM updates will be Tuesday and Friday. Weekends are for family/personal time. That being said, I'll be checking in most times, even then, and will answer questions if any.
Combat, on the other hand, is a 24 hour turn around. It's also done Blind. I've had problems with metagaming. Either just way too much in the middle of combat, or folks waiting in hopes someone would change an action to suit them and never actually posting. And those are the minor issues. Face it, rounds are only 6 seconds these days and spell casters hate it when I say they can't use their spells because they spent too much time talking (usually much more than 6 seconds or the equivalent) and they have no opportunity for Verbal components.
So:
-Combat actions are sent to your private threads (which you will all have). Include all die rolls and never assume a miss, just in case.
-Include any Reactions you want to happen, like Shield, or Wrath of Storm or whatever. AoO are assumed for those without posted Reactions. If you've posted an actual Reaction choice, you might want to include AoO instructions, as well, as you only get one Reaction per round.
-If the situation changes, such as someone going before you in the Initiative order and casting Faerie Fire, I will roll Advantage/Disadvantage dice for you to save time. You will be able to see my roll in the die roller.
-If you want to call out instructions, ask for help, etc, do so in your private thread. I'll pass it along with the round results as part of your Action in the appropriate place in the wrap up.
I have only had one person tell me they were leaving one of my games because of this. I'm not sure why. Back in the days of the PBeM and Irony, I used to do 3 rounds at a time, and folks enjoyed the fact that it sped things up. But now, with just one round a day (rather than a week, as everyone takes a day to post in their turns, as in some games) and it's a problem. I guess metagaming has become more of a thing these days. I can't think of any other reason for it to be an issue.
By the way, feel free to discuss, as a party, group tactics for future encounters. Just don't do it DURING the encounter.
This message was last edited by the GM at 04:56, Tue 17 Mar 2020.