Re: OOC:
I am sorry to hear that as well. I assume she is on home hospice care then? I hope she makes it long enough for your Uncle to see her, I lost my grandmother 24 years ago when I was in middle school.
And I agree with you Aergleel, siblings can be...interesting. I rarely speak to any of mine, despite being on Facebook, Messenger, etc... We just are not as close as we were when we were children. I guess it is the fact we live so far apart (NE, SE, SW, and West Coast) that makes it hard to stay connected. I do not know your family well, but perhaps just trying to get in contact with them via Google Search? That has helped my wife with some of her high school friends (20+ years ago), not perfect, but sometimes it works out.