OOC
I must admit I'm a bit confused about why you made your message red, Sigi. I, too, read it as you being upset.
As for the rate of posting, I think it was explained well already, but also keep in mind that even our DM only asks for one post per day during combat and one post every three days, at the latest, outside of it :) Like you mentioned before, most of us are probably working and tied up with other stuff, so I think it'll be hard for us to keep up with any more than that. It will for me, in any case!
And since we all understand the feeling of being left behind, I think all people are asking is that everyone, or nearly everyone, who's part of a happening or conversation get a turn before it goes back to the top poster. I think this is the most common and courteous way to do things :)