Avrikrelin (Avri) Gildenheel:
I still want to learn/get better at Pathfinder someday, but with that people usually start using words like 'gestalt' and 'spheres' and I back away slowly with confused whimpers :)
Hehe.
Pathfinder's basically the same as 3.5 but on steroids in terms of the sheer number of options that are available to players between alternate racial features, Traits, Classes and all the archetypes, skills, feats, etc. It can take me DAYS to make a pathfinder character, even level 1. Which is why I love 5e so much, as I can make a 20th level 5e character in about 20 minutes.
Gestalt ... I love the concept, but EVERY game I've tried to be in that used it just went down in flames because the DM's could never properly get a handle on what all the PC's could do and so it was either too easy or WAY too hard and everyone was dissatisfied.
I did one Spheres game, and it' an interesting system, but its like... trying to make Pathfinder into GURPS a bit. It's really a whole new thing that you have to learn separate from Pathfinder/3.5 rules.