I thought this would be a good format for us to discuss some of the things that are particularly difficult for us. I think we need to continue talking about our issues, but I also recognize that there are things that take precedent right now over our relationship. That being said, we have both agreed that pushing things off only makes the problem worse and, I don't know about you, but for me, making our issues the center of our discussions is exhausting and unhelpful. I think we've struck a good balance between our relationship and other more pressing issues, but that leads into never knowing when a good or opportune time to bring up things either one of us needs to talk about.
You don't ever have to respond to anything I post, nor do you need to post anything yourself, I just need somewhere that I can get some things out of my system. Plus, writing things down for me helps. I have a lot of things I'm working on right now and having a place where I can get some of my bigger feelings out might help.
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